Is the search for the "One" realistic?

Post by **SultanOrder** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 3:19 pm

We are a very idealistic society, at least our generation in the west. With romantic notions of love, sex, and partnership. This has translated into people seeking or desiring that "one" meant for them. Is the search for the "one" based on reality, or is it something else?

How many people believe in the "one"? And what does that mean to you for practical reasons, i.e. marriage, family relations, if they die what then. . . etc?

ZubeirAwal · Post by **ZubeirAwal** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 3:37 pm

WAR WHAT IS THIS TIME OF THE YEAR, "MOURNE MY RELATIONSHIP STATUS", IF YOU NIGGAS AND NIGGARESSES WANT TO GET MARRIED GET YO'ASS UP AND GET MARRIED. SUBXANALLAH!

SelfD · Post by **SelfD** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 3:40 pm

Perfect_Order wrote:We are a very idealistic society, at least our generation in the west. With romantic notions of love, sex, and partnership. This has translated into people seeking or desiring that "one" meant for them. Is the search for the "one" based on reality, or is it something else?

How many people believe in the "one"? And what does that mean to you for practical reasons, i.e. marriage, family relations, if they die what then. . . etc?

I don't believe in the "one" per se but rather the one (or possibly more) that were written for you as part of your destiny decreed by Allah.

Tuushi · Post by **Tuushi** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 3:43 pm

Are u watching cheesy movies again?

In this life,u r gonna meet those u connect with better than others. The one u consider would be the one that checks yes the most on ur checklist.

Lillaahiya · Post by **Lillaahiya** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 3:49 pm

There are 7 billion people in the world. Realistically, there are probably hundreds of thousands of people who would make are a 'better' match for you than the person/people you end up with. So much for your wife/husband being your soulmate

STARKAST · Post by **STARKAST** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 3:55 pm

If you want a man/woman with the same interests to you aka like you. Organize/start a activity society etc etc and market it etc and those people will come to you.
Simple.

This is why white people go to book clubs and alcohol anonymous.

Post by **SultanOrder** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 4:00 pm

I never watch cheesy movies

Self, isn't that a type of one? Because within the "one", destiny encompasses it as well. He/She is the one you were meant to end up with (usually in a lovey-dovey way).

Lilly, when you are in love, then you don't believe anyone else could make a better match for you

Hyperactive · Post by **Hyperactive** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 4:00 pm

ZubeirAwal wrote:WAR WHAT IS THIS TIME OF THE YEAR, "MOURNE MY RELATIONSHIP STATUS", IF YOU NIGGAS AND NIGGARESSES WANT TO GET MARRIED GET YO'ASS UP AND GET MARRIED. SUBXANALLAH!

lol hormones are hight, guess.

SelfD · Post by **SelfD** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 4:01 pm

STARKAST wrote:If you want a man/woman with the same interests to you aka like you. Organize/start a activity society etc etc and market it etc and those people will come to you.
Simple.

This is why white people go to book clubs and alcohol anonymous.

Muslim ppl pretty much just go to al maghrib or what not to meet someone...

Perfect_Order wrote:I never watch cheesy movies

Self, isn't that a type of one? Because within the "one", destiny encompasses it as well. He/She is the one you were meant to end up with (usually in a lovey-dovey way).

Lilly, when you are in love, then you don't believe anyone else could make a better match for you

Not really, because you could be destined to have more then one spouse or love.

SelfD · Post by **SelfD** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 4:02 pm

hyperactive wrote:
ZubeirAwal wrote:WAR WHAT IS THIS TIME OF THE YEAR, "MOURNE MY RELATIONSHIP STATUS", IF YOU NIGGAS AND NIGGARESSES WANT TO GET MARRIED GET YO'ASS UP AND GET MARRIED. SUBXANALLAH!
lol hormones are hight, guess.

I think its more the season of cuddling is around the corner...

Lillaahiya · Post by **Lillaahiya** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 4:03 pm

Perfect_Order wrote: Lilly, when you are in love, then you don't believe anyone else could make a better match for you

Cuffing season is upon us. I'll quote you this next summer inshaAllah

ZubeirAwal · Post by **ZubeirAwal** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 4:05 pm

Seriously after ramadan too much relationship topics from single members.

" Allah wuu ii sii eegay"

"INAN GUURSADO AYAN RABBA"

" Is there really the one for me?"

" I'm single HELP! HEEEEEEEWWP"

:Heh:

Post by **SultanOrder** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 4:07 pm

Lillaahiya wrote:
Perfect_Order wrote: Lilly, when you are in love, then you don't believe anyone else could make a better match for you
Cuffing season is upon us. I'll quote you this next summer inshaAllah

urbandictionary failed me this time

It's just the nature of love, it isn't rational but completely emotional. I don't know why you frontin, we all know you are a big softie.

Murax · Post by **Murax** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 4:09 pm

Perfect Order,

Just Shukaansi Her, marry her and be done with it bro.

Hyperactive · Post by **Hyperactive** » Tue Sep 17, 2013 4:12 pm

مmurux, inanka ha logoynin. after lust ends what he gonna do?

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