Cosob saan islahaa ceeba iga raacde

[VeiledGarbasar]

You are absolutely incorrigible, I'm smiling and laughing at my screen and that isn't a good look I tell you. Gabartan maxaa ku dhacay aa laysa dhahoow. Walaloo debiga iska dhaf, women are not inactive once they hit their 40's , I know plenty who still have kids till then, though I'm not really pro-that. Have fun at that age, but kids will be hard at that age, especially in the West. You must tell me naagta ku xumeeysay? She has played with your psyche I must say, bacdi madow is most definitely the exception. Waa outrageous to humiliate a grown man, never kill a guys ego, the relationship will most likely die then and there. Anyhow, I concur, I will find you garoob from 30-35 (or mid-fresh)? I cannot still guarantee you lacag. Laakin since she is fairly young at 30's, it should be fine with you.

Apart from reading Chinua Achebe, I don't know the rest, I have heard of Cry though! I will look into them all inshaaAllah.

Balaayo ku siyaarto! Agh, Shabaab will likely move my poor bones and move goodness knows to where!

[Lamagoodle]

You are absolutely incorrigible, I'm smiling and laughing at my screen and that isn't a good look I tell you. Gabartan maxaa ku dhacay aa laysa dhahoow. Walaloo debiga iska dhaf, women are not inactive once they hit their 40's , I know plenty who still have kids till then, though I'm not really pro-that. Have fun at that age, but kids will be hard at that age, especially in the West. You must tell me naagta ku xumeeysay? She has played with your psyche I must say, bacdi madow is most definitely the exception. Waa outrageous to humiliate a grown man, never kill a guys ego, the relationship will most likely die then and there. Anyhow, I concur, I will find you garoob from 30-35 (or mid-fresh)? I cannot still guarantee you lacag. Laakin since she is fairly young at 30's, it should be fine with you.

Apart from reading Chinua Achebe, I don't know the rest, I have heard of Cry though! I will look into them all inshaaAllah.

Balaayo ku siyaarto! Agh, Shabaab will likely move my poor bones and move goodness knows to where!

LOL. I just hope the xaaji does not become suspicious that you are into something fishy; in other words garbasaarkaaga yaan banaanka loo soo tuurin. They might be not inactive - although many are- but that is a period of uncertainity; The biological changes ( naaskii gamuunka ahaa ee xudunta gaarey oo aad moodid balooni aariyada ka dhaamatay; excess luggage on the rear oo keliyaha gaarey, weji balooley oo noqdey geed abaar arkay etc) as well as the psychological aspect of the past prime cajuuso syndromes (24/7 on the phone, attending weddings and gossiping and wanting to split families) ascend in the 30-40s. Yes, there are some who still has IT but these are far and few between.

Kids are ok but they are obviously “ part of the problem” of cajuusification . Markaay aragto caruurteeda oo 15 gaaray she will get depressed specially when daughters start using make up and show signs of maturity.

Lacag la’aan ! Laba qaawan isma qaado; ok reerkooda lacag ma leeyihiin? 30 jir is ok if she has the brain and social capital. Fresh maxaad ku wadaa? Ma geesxir baa? mise waa garoob isku dhaxeeyso oo iska shaqeeysay? Ma hubtaa da’adeeda? Mise waa da’ada aay isku dhiibtay?
Waan kaa war sugayaa.

Please enjoy this blues song which I play every day:

[PrinceDaadi]

meeshan shukaansi dadban baa ka socda, hadii uu shaqeeyo yaan xalwada ya la ila dhaafin.


Lam: Vietnam ma Hanoi baad tegi mise HCM City in the South?

[Lamagoodle]

Prince,
I will be flying to Ho Chi Minh and taking a car to Quy Nhon and Da Nang. Vietnam ma dad soomaali ayaa ku nool?

[VeiledGarbasar]

Why would he be upset, screen oo laguu qoslaayow asag maxaay ka qadaay? Simply nothing. Loool@the description. If ladies de-man a guy, you have de-womanised naagaha soomalida! I'm off to a wedding maybe this Weekend, and then the Week after that...Its nothing to do with cajuuso syndromes but that we need to show support and love for the qarabo & friends, see waa. Adi lee depression sheegaysi, aniga kuwa aqaano dirac ugu dabo ineey gaashtan and look like the sisters of their 15 year olds.

@ laba qaawan. Reerkeeda ayaada ee ba rabaan inteey lacga soo galiso. Lacgta caruurta ayuuto aa la gala...sheekay kugu nacay.

Fresh, yacni nin ka hore maa jiro! Oo adigna maxa ka wada geesxir? Garoob aniga maxaa uu aqaana naag nin horey uu qabaay. Lol@ her age, I'm going to make sure about her da', adiga aniga igu dhaaf taas.

LOL, How apt is this song for everything you are saying! No wonder you are spouting all of this stuff. But it is nice, and got a lovely beat to it.

PrinceDaadi,

You misunderstood, ninkaan naag lacag leh oo garoob oo raadino wa.

[Lamagoodle]

Why would he be upset, screen oo laguu qoslaayow asag maxaay ka qadaay? Simply nothing. Loool@the description. If ladies de-man a guy, you have de-womanised naagaha soomalida! I'm off to a wedding maybe this Weekend, and then the Week after that...Its nothing to do with cajuuso syndromes but that we need to show support and love for the qarabo & friends, see waa. Adi lee depression sheegaysi, aniga kuwa aqaano dirac ugu dabo ineey gaashtan and look like the sisters of their 15 year olds.

@ laba qaawan. Reerkeeda ayaada ee ba rabaan inteey lacga soo galiso. Lacgta caruurta ayuuto aa la gala...sheekay kugu nacay.

Fresh, yacni nin ka hore maa jiro! Oo adigna maxa ka wada geesxir? Garoob aniga maxaa uu aqaana naag nin horey uu qabaay. Lol@ her age, I'm going to make sure about her da', adiga aniga igu dhaaf taas.

LOL, How apt is this song for everything you are saying! No wonder you are spouting all of this stuff. But it is nice, and got a lovely beat to it.

PrinceDaadi,

You misunderstood, ninkaan naag lacag leh oo garoob oo raadino wa.

Veil, aree joog! You can't imagine how many break ups occur because of "the simple screen". Arooskana waa dab socodo. I am giving you free advice. Women in general love weddings because it reminds them of their own weddings; a sort of prozac. Love for qaraabo and friends ku laha! It is for your own good; it is time to show your new dirac and a set of tabal caaro dahab! It is funny that somali weddings are a show of excess; men who don't have driving licenses and live on welfare; men who can hardly tie a tie in expensive suits; women who come to the wedding with the face of Cadeeys but as the night moves on, they become dark and old

Lacag geliso aa? Turubka waa laisla bartay. We live in an equal world and I always invoke the gender issue. I want the woman to pay even for the first casho. Ayuuto in my opinion is a great thing; it empowers the woman and emancipates her. What is better than an emancipated woman? With ayuuto money in her purse she can even but my love

This is a lesson for you in somali womenlogy;
Gashaanto 15-17
Geesxir; a woman whose hand has been requested but because of one reason or another she says NO. If she does not marry at a tender age, she become gumeeys (theoretically, after turning 17). Gumeeys is nimcatul fashuuq because as a consequence of peer pressure and in the extension bullying she will stick to her husband.

And then you have garoob; in a garoob relationship there are marriages of conviniences; qodbo siro, one week stand etc; of course xalaal, since you only need someone who can pray to be the qaadi and a few marfish guys.

Anyway, yaan hadal kuugu badinine bal suuqa ii gal. I am in London once a month, so I need to have someone there. I am kind of old school like my father; whereever I fly to is my home.

[VeiledGarbasar]

Lamoooooooooo! Firi, I laugh at what people write because it can be amusing, I would laugh in person too, adiga naagta maa ku xaanaq laheed? Is that why you want mid reer-baadiyo? I mean the writing doesn't have to be coming from guys, it can be from girls too. Mise farxaada oo ii diida? I go for the baraanbuur and seeing normally lazy ladies jumping up and down. Sxb, gabdhaha reerkood oo lacg gelin waa la caay, taas waa mid ee fa'idow baadan laheen. Koley adiga hada rabtiid naag lacg leh, then don't be surprised when she kicks you out after 2 kids.

@ Somali womenology. So, let me get this right, after 17 you become Gumeeys, but if you refuse someones hand then you become Geesxir? How long do you stay Geesxir? In my opinion sticking to her husband waaba wax fiicaan, we have too many divorces.

Lool@ marfish guys, addunyada maxaa ugu necbahay 'qudbo siro, I loathe it. So, since you come to London a lot, you also live in another European country, you need 2 wives miya, ileen meel walbo aa tagti maxaad rabta qof aa isku kululeeysid?

Haasha. Bal ii kaadi aa garoob meelahaan kaga firiyo.

[Lamagoodle]

Lamoooooooooo! Firi, I laugh at what people write because it can be amusing, I would laugh in person too, adiga naagta maa ku xaanaq laheed? Is that why you want mid reer-baadiyo? I mean the writing doesn't have to be coming from guys, it can be from girls too. Mise farxaada oo ii diida? I go for the baraanbuur and seeing normally lazy ladies jumping up and down. Sxb, gabdhaha reerkood oo lacg gelin waa la caay, taas waa mid ee fa'idow baadan laheen. Koley adiga hada rabtiid naag lacg leh, then don't be surprised when she kicks you out after 2 kids.

@ Somali womenology. So, let me get this right, after 17 you become Gumeeys, but if you refuse someones hand then you become Geesxir? How long do you stay Geesxir? In my opinion sticking to her husband waaba wax fiicaan, we have too many divorces.

Lool@ marfish guys, addunyada maxaa ugu necbahay 'qudbo siro, I loathe it. So, since you come to London a lot, you also live in another European country, you need 2 wives miya, ileen meel walbo aa tagti maxaad rabta qof aa isku kululeeysid?

Haasha. Bal ii kaadi aa garoob meelahaan kaga firiyo.

I understand that you could be laughing at anything-written even by same gender- laakin ogow qosol aan lagula qabin qalbiguu wax yeelaa I just don't want to contribute to a failed marriage mmm... not really true! Naagaha qaarkood waan jeclaan lahaa in xabsiga aay ku jiraan laga saaro; you can't imagine how many xuurul cayns ish calaas are living in unhappy marriages! Buraanburka is a classical rap for somali women but nowadays my sources tell me that is being abused; too much tribalism.

Caruur aa? That is a trap. Aniga waxaan doonayaa mid minka iska saartay ama dhalmo gooysey waayo waxaan ogaadey in caruurta laiskugu soo gabado. Mid waxaan rabaa ROCK IYO JAZZ ila tumato oo aan waqtiga isla riixano. Mid aan gacmaha is qabsano oo aan laabteedana qaboojiye.

Af lamagoodlaha ma labaaju kaa aadey? Geesxir waa naagta la soo doontay oo diiday ninkii la siyey. In most cases, she will climb the ladder to gumeeys Gumeeys is my favourite by the way.

Qurbosiro is great. It is kind of living together and gives you the opportunity to be under the radar. Habeenkii unbaa laisu soo dhuumanayaa. Yes, I visit London alot and I usually feel lonely; nobody to go to movies with. People are a sleep during daytime.

Waan kaa warsugayaa