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A friend of my mom's has just found out that her son, aged 16 years (just), is having sex with his girlfriend who is also somali. Understandably she is very upset about this. She has banned him from going out with her and said she does not want the girl anywhere near her house but doesn't want to tell the girl's family.

I understand that she is upset. But now that he has 'done it' how is she going to stop them. He has a car, sees her at school every day, and is not at home under her watchful eye 24/7, she is going crazy about this and is thinking about what to do like whether she should tell the girl's parents or she should send her son to somalia where his dad is. Aloow ceeb astur..

I am thinking that once this line is crossed, how can you prevent it from happening again. You don't want to encourage it, however would it not be safer now this has happened to talk about safe sex which he won't listen to his mom about convincing him of how much sin he is committing according to the sharia, rather than hoping it will 'go away'.

I would be interested to hear what peoples views are on trying to deal with this situation.

Aniga abahey police ko i dibi laha, i'm not joking. marba may father saw daqadey da o furan and there was neihbour's girl was sitting her balcony. may head was shaved in the police station and all the lecture about walalo bad ledahay, iyo meyad naf dada o qori lahed things. He doesn't joke about it.

war maxaad leedahay...

abbaha ba kugu qabtay gabar direska ah...

that nigga is G

Okay my oromo i mean my somali is bad.
Maya qofna la iguma qaban.lol
i was minding my bussness in my room, my window was open. My father came in and there was girl was sitting in her balacony, he thought i was looking at her. Aniguna ma ba arkeyn I was studying.

Salam alaikum

subhanala it become much popular among todays young people the sexiual thing,.. " indvandrere med en ikke-vestlig baggrund har 6 gange øget tilbøjelighed til at vælge abort" a new analysis of abort from the abort ..tells that non-danish young people are the most ones who get abort, and it doubled 6 times now subhanalah

hyper your dad is seef la bood ma istidhi?..lol

naima, allaha ceeb asturo walal.

Mystic,

We need to ask this question to those Somali men who are responsible for the destruction of our country...They are responsible for every teen that is gone wild.... For every family that broke out..for all the single mothers....for all the lost souls in our society

And even they are not satisfied yet, they are still struggling to wipe the Somali name from the face of the earth....

They are the cause period.....

kambalui right, what about our parents they believe "wiil ceeb makeeno, gabar ba akeento" the guys parents don't care! as long as it's not their daughters!..as they say what goes around comes around.

kambuli maxaa suaal la weeydiiya nimankan walal.. wax qurun ah baa isku so hadhay..

send his ass back to mogadishu.

Naima and Mystic,

Excactly Nimankan dalkoodii cuney, ee si walaba u baab'iyey, ee dhinac walba ka toogtey ee rogey dalkii, iyagaa la weydiinaya caruurta baaba'day...

Waxaa la ii sheegey, in Somaaliya xataa caruurta la iib geeyo, oo diyaaradaha lagu guro, tuuq iyo khaain kasta oo dibadda joogey Somaaliya ayuu u shaqo tegey....Wax Alla waxa dhacaya nimankaa ka masuul ah...

Bal u fiirso golahan keliya...Waxa nacayb iyo cadaawad iyo xumaan iyo is nacayb dhexdooda yaal? Ma kuwaas ayaa rajo leh? Weliba taagta ba'day waa kuwii wax bartay ee aan gaajadu hayn...I just can't continue walaahay...

I agree they are dispeakable pricks...maxaan samayn karnaa but pray for them...ilahay sharaftii soomaliyeed ha so celiyo..

Tell the girls family, but discretely.

They both need to realise the magnitude of their action, and be fully educated on what Islam says about pre marital sex.
Personally if that was my son(hopefully my son will never reach such a low), i would send him to Somalia.

Let me guess, the kid doesnt have his father around?

Mystic Angel , Kambuli iyoo xertaan isku soo ururtay halkan , su'aal baan idiin haya anigu.
Kaba soo qaad inaad waxaad sheegaysaan oo dhani runtii iyoo xaqiiqadii ay tahay.
Ciyaal yar yar oo qalbigoogu nuurayo waad inoo dhali lahaydeen ee , sow qoodhe meesha loo ma bahna? Xaggeed ka keenaysaan ?