Ismahan,
I dont' hate people because of their Qabiil Wallahi. I have soo many SACAD friends and we banter lil bit and they are still my friends, they call me Dhabayaco, and I call them HUTU. Its you who hate poeple cuz of their Qabiil. One time you said, you will never marry an MJ dude
I hope you end up with an MJ king