Postby Voltage » Sun Jan 20, 2008 5:22 pm
Babygirl, a lot of what you said sounds very unbelievable especially a somali man where respect and honor is valued more in culture than anything telling his wife after she found out inuu qaniis yahay "ninkaan wuu kaa horeeyey, ama tag ama joog", very unbelievable on your but that is one. The second thing sis that you missed a golden opportunity to confirm whether indeed your friend's stepdad is committing qaniisnimo and are now only going by what was told to you by an anonymous person you have never seen nor talked to before.
in islam, to say a person is committing illegal straight sexual intercourse, you need to get FOUR witnesses let alone an act of sodomy. why do you think it is that Allah (swt) perscribed 4 witnesses if he did not know full well the characters and personalities of his creation?
Babygirl as you said allah said ceebta u qari qofka because adiguna wuu kuu qarin, so too did He say suspicion is a foul thing, as of now you have no concrete proof if the person is guilt of what they were accused of and I can't help as to think why you did not want to confirm if this is true?