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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby Quadratic » Fri Apr 25, 2008 6:17 am

I think he is a good guy who knows what he desires in life and seems to be selfless. He is a college student, he can work, he has the means, with all that positives, he decides to marry an older woman who is at her prime, some of the 38's I have seen are like an opulent sunshine :up: What a man he is! He bypasses the daughter and marries the mother. Waa nin rag ah ninkaan. Baansiinka, encourage your friend to go with the plan.

PS: Women can have kids all the way to 45 plus. As long as she is getting her monthly period she is said to be fertile. Compare to the men who can knockout a woman at 90? LOL.

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby FAH1223 » Fri Apr 25, 2008 6:49 am

Leila2007 wrote:That just wrong and unacceptable!

Why on earth does a young college graduate want to marry someone who is old enough to be his mum? He wont have the same values, dreams and interests as her! and would soon be out. One reason why divorce cases are so high in our community.

If a college graduate cant think straight who else will? I rest my case!


:lol: Someone sounds offended

it is a 13 year old age difference, what is the big deal?

Like Emperior said, Muhammad Al Rasuul SAW married a woman 15 years older than him, Khadija (ra). Iska Caadi dheh

All of the divorces in the Somali community are from people who are the same age :lol:

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby PYT20 » Fri Apr 25, 2008 6:56 am

This is the first time I hear of this type of scenario happening in the somali community, I say, good luck to both of 'em....May Allah bless their marriage.

It really depends on their personalities though and their views on life, family, values....if they can find common ground in these areas...insha allah everything should work out ok....oh and ofcourse both of them should be practising enough to realise what the rights and duties are of each partner.

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby HELWAA » Fri Apr 25, 2008 7:20 am

Madd_Scientist_ wrote:Nothing wrong with that.



Indeed! Old women need love too......... :D

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby Cali_Gaab » Fri Apr 25, 2008 8:20 am

Wouldn't that be great. Marrying the mother of a pretty girl with bangin' body who's the same age as you.
She can never disrespect you coz you bang her mother, walahi you'd be a lucky man.

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby Leila2007 » Fri Apr 25, 2008 8:30 am

LOL FAH

I am not offerended but just ........Honestly we shouldnt be encouranging this kind of behaviour because it just wrong! I know love is blind and people are free to do what they wish but this just creates twisted society in my opinion. Marry for the right reason that is to raise a responsible family. He will marry this woman and he will be seeing his daughter who is his own age within the family house. What kind of messege is this woman sending to her own daughter?

I dont have a problem with age difference but as long as we are responsible! As for Rasuul (SAW) well I doubt a faraax will be that responsible, honest and sincere!

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby Hyperactive » Fri Apr 25, 2008 8:33 am

khair Allah ha oga digo.
25 years old is an old enough
he can marry even 40 years old.
but now i cannot bring myself to some one
13 years older.
maybe 2 or 3 max.

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby Gifted » Fri Apr 25, 2008 8:34 am

I dont see what the issue is here. The only thing that bothers me is how he generalised all younger women.

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby Hyperactive » Fri Apr 25, 2008 8:36 am

lol Gifted.
don't worry young ladies
wali sooq wey leeyahin.lol

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby ms.nalia » Fri Apr 25, 2008 8:43 am

Men have been marrying women 1,2,3 decades their junior for a mellenia...and that is accepted and tolerated...even encouraged in some societies....so why cant women do that as well?...it is an equal opportunity world out there.....
so to all the ppl who disagree....get over it!

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby Quadratic » Fri Apr 25, 2008 8:44 am

Cali-Gaab,

It appears to me you are more enthralled by the banging body of the daughter-in-law and rate the marriage to her mom top notch for that reason instead of her mother's qualities. I can be wrong in my assumptions though and I stand corrected. What more respect can you ask for when the union with her mother makes you automatically a father figure for her? Gaaboow, warka isii.



Ms.nalia

It is always better if the man is older a bit than the woman. Some women would agree with me on that. Anyone?
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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby Hyperactive » Fri Apr 25, 2008 8:47 am

lol ms.nalia
i asked my mother if it's ok to marry older woman.
she said when you said older
how older you mean?
i said like 10 years.lol
she said when you are 40 and she is 50 i wouldn't care but to bring now some one close to my age than yours
not acceptable by me.lol

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby FAH1223 » Fri Apr 25, 2008 11:51 am

Quadratic wrote:Cali-Gaab,

It appears to me you are more enthralled by the banging body of the daughter-in-law and rate the marriage to her mom top notch for that reason instead of her mother's qualities. I can be wrong in my assumptions though and I stand corrected. What more respect can you ask for when the union with her mother makes you automatically a father figure for her? Gaaboow, warka isii.



Ms.nalia

It is always better if the man is older a bit than the woman. Some women would agree with me on that. Anyone?


:up:

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby HELWAA » Fri Apr 25, 2008 11:53 am

Quadratic wrote:Cali-Gaab,

It appears to me you are more enthralled by the banging body of the daughter-in-law and rate the marriage to her mom top notch for that reason instead of her mother's qualities. I can be wrong in my assumptions though and I stand corrected. What more respect can you ask for when the union with her mother makes you automatically a father figure for her? Gaaboow, warka isii.



Ms.nalia

It is always better if the man is older a bit than the woman. Some women would agree with me on that. Anyone?


You are right..The man should be older atleast 5 yrs.

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Re: Young boys with older women

Postby zulaika » Fri Apr 25, 2008 12:52 pm

i just have one thing to say about this..

a girl can handle a man...but a boy can never handle a woman.

:D


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