Arranged Marriages....

[Cawar]

Cawar-

Walaal, nowadays it's hard to find a decent hardworking somali guy (graduate), and trust me i've been looking everywhere , so if my parents/friends decide to hook me up i wouldnt mind. As long as i get the final say....

And u?

My mom is already driving me crazy..

Salaam GB congrats....I heard you got married

[xidigow]

If you went through 5 women...dont you think the problem is you not them???

Ms Nl,

I admit the 5, but they were all XALAAL...what about you?

Me? I cant relate bro ...Ive never been married.....[/quote]

Sis then there is no contest between us, I am pro. and you are amateur.

[ms.nalia]

If you went through 5 women...dont you think the problem is you not them???

Ms Nl,

I admit the 5, but they were all XALAAL...what about you?

Me? I cant relate bro ...Ive never been married.....

Sis then there is no contest between us, I am pro. and you are amateur.[/quote]


I find it sad how you claim to be a pro (and seem proud) when it comes to being a failure....you're aboslutley right theres no contest, Im not a failure and dont plan on to be one either....

[HELWAA]

^ thats the islamic way--u can know eachother in marriage

arranged marriages for girls

boys can choose

I know it's the islamic way and it could work for some pple laakin xiligan ayno joogno it would never work...it has been three divorces just this month in my city and all of them was arranged....Aduunko sidi hore oo ahaan jiray mahaa dadki dhaqankoodi wuu is badley, diinti way ku yaraatey dadka badankooda...dad badan dhaqankii gaalada ayey qaateen oo wax yaalo badan o dadki hore ay sameen jirin bay bilaabeen...marka khilaaf badan baa dhacay iyo is af garansho waa...marka waxa la qaatey inay dadko aad isku bartaan marka hore oo is dabaceed bartaan...oo laga wada hadlo wax yaalo fara badan intaaney sheekado guur gaarin.

[zulaika]

some people just don't know what's good for them..even if it hits them in the head..

arranged marriages are a mix bag of nuts..it entails good and bad.. but ultimately it would take an open minded individual to explore its potential.

[maria from west side]

Arranged marriages are the way to go

Hooyo knows best

Marriage is not strictly about "love" The love ends quickly when reality sets in. Get the duco of your parents before you marry.

Well that's the way u think now, wait untill your hoyo find u an ugly girl (fat, shourt and dark)....Good luck.

[laila2008]

I find that insecure people who can't get date tend to go for arranged marriage specially the men more then the woman.

Never seen gorgeous people needed help from their parents for marriage

[HELWAA]

I find that insecure people who can't get date tend to go for arranged marriage specially the men more then the woman.

Never seen gorgeous people needed help from their parents for marriage

Wager adna ma taasa la shir timi

[Madd_Scientist_]

I find that insecure people who can't get date tend to go for arranged marriage specially the men more then the woman.

Never seen gorgeous people needed help from their parents for marriage

That's not true.

[laila2008]

i'm just stating the facts

People ask for arranged marriage when they can't get mates on their own. They need the help of their relatives, family etc like blind dates. Gorgeous people don't need the help to hook up their look automatically attracts everyone to them therefore have the choice of brushing them off or continuing in taking to the next level.

From experience every girl that I've seen who wanted arranged marriage are either ugly, fat, insecure, old, un-educated or have highschool diploma, are not allowed to go out either due to culture or religion reason. and therefore need the help from their parents or relatives to meet someone. Same goes to men.

[xidigow]

Cawar-

Walaal, nowadays it's hard to find a decent hardworking somali guy (graduate), and trust me i've been looking everywhere , so if my parents/friends decide to hook me up i wouldnt mind. As long as i get the final say....

And u?

Mad-scientist,

Adeer waan kuu soo dcueynayaa in ilaahey mid kheyrqabo, oo diinta ku wanaagsan, oo wax bartay, oo shaqeysta, (ileen waa mashaakil haduu wax bartay oo aanu shaqa haysane) oo aan balwad laheyn, oo kaa daba dhaca, oo aan adiga mooyee cid kale indhaha ku taagin, in ilaahey si sahlan kuugu soo diro..Aaamiiiiiiin..waar hooriya dee aamiinta maxaa idinka khaldan

[Madd_Scientist_]

i'm just stating the facts

People ask for arranged marriage when they can't get mates on their own. They need the help of their relatives, family etc like blind dates. Gorgeous people don't need the help to hook up their look automatically attracts everyone to them therefore have the choice of brushing them off or continuing in taking to the next level.

From experience every girl that I've seen who wanted arranged marriage are either ugly, fat, insecure, old, un-educated or have highschool diploma, are not allowed to go out either due to culture or religion reason. and therefore need the help from their parents or relatives to meet someone. Same goes to men.

None of those apply to me my dear, just waiting for the perfect guy (in my eyes) and if my parents or friends want to help me out then why not? At the end of the day i've got the right to say No.

[Madd_Scientist_]

Cawar-

Walaal, nowadays it's hard to find a decent hardworking somali guy (graduate), and trust me i've been looking everywhere , so if my parents/friends decide to hook me up i wouldnt mind. As long as i get the final say....

And u?

Mad-scientist,

Adeer waan kuu soo dcueynayaa in ilaahey mid kheyrqabo, oo diinta ku wanaagsan, oo wax bartay, oo shaqeysta, (ileen waa mashaakil haduu wax bartay oo aanu shaqa haysane) oo aan balwad laheyn, oo kaa daba dhaca, oo aan adiga mooyee cid kale indhaha ku taagin, in ilaahey si sahlan kuugu soo diro..Aaamiiiiiiin..waar hooriya dee aamiinta maxaa idinka khaldan

Amiin.... That's about all i understood... so AMIIIIIIIIN adeer!!!

Same to you mate!

[FAH1223]

i'm just stating the facts

People ask for arranged marriage when they can't get mates on their own. They need the help of their relatives, family etc like blind dates. Gorgeous people don't need the help to hook up their look automatically attracts everyone to them therefore have the choice of brushing them off or continuing in taking to the next level.

From experience every girl that I've seen who wanted arranged marriage are either ugly, fat, insecure, old, un-educated or have highschool diploma, are not allowed to go out either due to culture or religion reason. and therefore need the help from their parents or relatives to meet someone. Same goes to men.

Talk about an over-generalization. There are so many "gorgeous" people who are depressed and lonely, who can't even get a spouse even in our own Somali community.

[ms.nalia]

I find that insecure people who can't get date tend to go for arranged marriage specially the men more then the woman.

Never seen gorgeous people needed help from their parents for marriage

I kind of agree with you...but good looking sucessful women have a hard time landing mr. right too....I would know from first hand exprience.