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Abdiqani-G wrote:I know somali and islam dhaqan and sharci is to go to the parents of a girl and ask her hand or the chance to get to know her...but does this apply in presentdat too?
For example, lets say u know a girl (around 18) she is still in school, u are too in school around the same age category u talk on msn etc and occasionaly link up...ofcourse behind the parents back....
wht i dont understand is why this sort of innocent dating is taboe for us somalis? for example, lets say a person that knowes her family sees us just walking and talking outside....and this persons goes to the family, it will cause dramma..........i wonder why?
Ladies care to explain to us poor faaraxs on the right procedure to follow? Talking/seeing each other behind the parents while doing nothing haram...is bad? or normal depending on circumstances?
The-Screw wrote:would you buy a car without test driving it or without a carfax report? i didn't think so, dude...screen the chick for all the crazy xalimo symptoms before you take her to your mom.
Abdiqani-G wrote:the usual duaghter-sister story. Wll if my sister or daughter would talk on the phone and occasionaly drink thee or cofee with a guy who is at least educated, has job, and is good to her...i would invite the guy out and stimulate them to go to the next level
Anyways, helwaa what is your story...so u never talked to a guy on the phone...or msn...or u never have 1 cofee with a guy behind the back of your parents?
The-Screw wrote:would you buy a car without test driving it or without a carfax report? i didn't think so, dude...screen the chick for all the crazy xalimo symptoms before you take her to your mom.
My sister is married siidii luu guursaday guriigeeda maan tagiin ka warran
Abdiqani-G wrote:the usual duaghter-sister story. Wll if my sister or daughter would talk on the phone and occasionaly drink thee or cofee with a guy who is at least educated, has job, and is good to her...i would invite the guy out and stimulate them to go to the next level
Anyways, helwaa what is your story...so u never talked to a guy on the phone...or msn...or u never have 1 cofee with a guy behind the back of your parents?
Naaima wrote:Salam alaikum
everytime you go out with a abaayo halimo behind her parents back you are betraying them and abayao halimo betraying her parents when she sneaks out from behind their back to see her aboowe farah....i do always tell my brother that i blah blah blah with ina hebel i... no worries somali from paparazzi mamas
My story Is none of ur busin but one thing is for sure i would never jepordize my reputation for a simpel farax.
The-Screw wrote:b/c these are the times we live in and i didn't make the rules, chivalry died centuries ago.
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