I have a question?

[S-D-M]

Why would you assume that I'm a gold digger?

Personally when it comes down to it, I wouldn't marry for money, however, we have to be realistic here financial stability is a must in a marriage.

You may not be a gold digger, but you have the mind of one.........


My motto is what is mine is your and and what is your is mine.......Simple........And never ask a person about his financial statues.

[Nabeela]

You may not be a gold digger, but you have the mind of one.........

Waayahay, you are entitled to your opinion.


MM, Thanks.

[RIIGHAYE]

In either Europe or America, you will hardly find a decent , chaste woman, yet majority want exorbitant wedding though the family of the girl sometimes share the cost burden with the man's family, except the dowry.

Many guys are forced to go to far distances to find their bride with all the credentials that they are seeking: Naivety, decent, innocent , young and obedient.
I have three friends who went to the Middle East and Married Mixed Arab-Somali Girls. They came back elated and satisfied with their decisions.

Importing.

You will import her after a while, but The best place to have and raise kids is a Muslim land.

[American-Suufi]

Faysal let me teach you something.

Dowry in lamagodley culture=camels

Since you like single mums like Nabeela, I can donate 10 sacks of quule for her people on your behalf as dowry, tell me the address.

[xidigow]

Good question Nabeela,




Nabz:

I would pay whatever she wanted for meher. The payment is only due if the marriage falls apart.

That is not 100% correct...It is due when she asks for it. it could be right after the marriage. so be careful

[Samatr]

Guys: How much would you be willing to pay for your wife's dowry?

Girls: How much would you be willing to accept?

I would pay nothing, but just to respect her family and her I would pay a reasonable amount.
even if I had like a million saved up I wouldn't pay more than 3 grand, if
your going to be with someone money should not be an issue.
The silly dowry money can be used for a new house, your children's college savings etc.
I'll show her the door if she doesn't accept the little dowry I am willing to pay but trust me ta aan aqaano isla fikrad baanu nahay, money should never be an issue.
































































what y'all thought I was gonna change my mind.

[BABYGIRL123]

GAAJO

[Samatr]

I would rather spend 50 grand on my future childrens college savings than pay a ridiculous dowry amount.
Wallee gaajo maad arag, gaajo waxaad arki doontaa markuu ninkaagu kuu siiyo 25,000 isla markaana 25,000 kale kuu kharashgareeyo arooska marke dambe deyn bilaa camal buu geli doonaa, xitaa lacagtii aqalka maan soo hadal qaadin.

[BABYGIRL123]

A financially stable man baa la radsada dee not the poor faraxs working in Warehouses (samatr )

[MzBeautiful]

Guys: How much would you be willing to pay for your wife's dowry?

Girls: How much would you be willing to accept?

I dnt accept lower than $100,000 ( has to be in Pounds )

[MzBeautiful]

mar baan bixiye lacag ghaadhaysa 4000 Euro

tallow yaa lacagtayda ii soo celliya fadhi cusub baa baan kusoo iibsan laha

You call that lacag

[BABYGIRL123]

^^Thats my girl make them pay

[Samatr]

A financially stable man baa la radsada dee not the poor faraxs working in Warehouses (samatr )

I admit I have worked in a warehouse before but it was to pay for my
books and tuition.
A rich man can only supply you with money, money won't put you to sleep every night.
There are too many damn gold diggers out there, thats why in a few years I will never mention my profession to any Somali ladies I meet, I will tell them I am a comedian.

loool @ make them pay, xaaladu haday sidaas tahay neefka geel maxaad dhaantaan?

[BABYGIRL123]

lol @ put you to sleep well you have to fish for the best

I am going to be 9 months pregnant feeding his ass cooking & cleaning may quit my career for him what the fuk i need to be paid.

[WasteMan]

The amount should be reasonable , women are encouraged to ask for small amount or anything. According to Shaykh Hamzas lecture (Rights and Responsibilities of Marriage), if you use the standard of the time of the prophet, the mahr should be around 20 bucks.