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Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby marcassmith » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:26 pm

Lately there has been a tendency for Somali women to marry Muslim reverts. Although as a practicing man, I have nothing but love and respect for the marriage of Muslim sisters to Muslim brothers. I am concerned by the extent to which Somali women throw themselves towards any new revert to Islam in the hope of a marriage made in heaven. This is a worrying phenomenon and I think its very important we safe-guard the marriage of Somali women to Somali men.

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby Gedo_Boy » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:33 pm

This is directly tied to the viewing of the OPRAH show by Somali women 8)

Seriously, this is a 'grass is greener' phenomenon. As long as they are getting married to a decent Muslim man, I couldn't care less, Somalis will not remain a homogenous people and people just want to settle down, have safety, children and a future.

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby Lexmark » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:37 pm

actually, it has to do with that a lot of these girls fooled around when they were younger and they know a farah wont marry them so they marry the first thing that comes their way

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby SahanGalbeed » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:38 pm

Me too as long as they are decent muslims , I cannot oppose it , as matter of fact many many somali men have left their islamic roots nowadays , so i say good on you ladies !
Check out the bicth above me here , taaso miidhan weeye waxan hadal hayo :lol:

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby marcassmith » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:41 pm

why are young somali sisters intent on marrrying any new revert. At my local mosque, every other marriage is between a somali woman and a revert. I have no problem with this but whats wrong with the plenty of somali men out there?

Is this purely religious or something more sinister?

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby Lexmark » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:41 pm

Me too as long as they are decent muslims , I cannot oppose it , as matter of fact many many somali men have left their islamic roots nowadays , so i say good on you ladies !
Check out the bicth above me here , taaso miidhan weeye waxan hadal hayo :lol:

most somali men left their islamic roots?


wallahi, your homo #1

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby Lexmark » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:42 pm

why are young somali sisters intent on marrrying any new revert. At my local mosque, every other marriage is between a somali woman and a revert. I have no problem with this but whats wrong with the plenty of somali men out there?

Is this purely religious or something more sinister?

just let them be :up:

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby marcassmith » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:43 pm

look guys please cut the personal insults! i am really interested to know why this phenomenon is occuring in our community?

how come asians and arabs dont marry outside their own! why are somalis intent on marrying non somalis?

I think its largely due to the fact that there is a lot of self-hating somali people out there!
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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby Lexmark » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:44 pm

self hate
inferiority complex
desperate
low standards


take your pick :up:

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby SahanGalbeed » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:44 pm

YOU, CONFUSED lil boys like you that ' the problem !!
I have no problem with this but whats wrong with the plenty of somali men out there?
You either have a problem with it , and say your piece or just keep it quiet .


Lexbitc.h yeah , your kind , gossiping , porno gloryfying gangsta wanna be dooro bit.ch of your sort , to be exact !
Naag baad tahay , maadama aad naag tahay na , dumarka kale waxaad ka sheegta ba , waa ka xaasidnimo , taasina Ilaah baa mamnuucay ! :up:

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby marcassmith » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:50 pm

i do have a problem!

i am a patriot and dont want my homogenous nation to be extinction in about 100 years which is how long i have estimated before somalis become extinct species.

Jokes aside, this is a truely worrying issue. I am interested to know what makes a somali woman marry a non somali? when there are plenty of good somali men out there.

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby HaileyBailey » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:53 pm

If you are a minority it's only natural that the majority will eventually consume you. Somalis living in somalia will marry other somalis, however somalis as a minority living in the Diasphora will get competition with people of other races, hennce the chances are much higher for a somali women to marry an outsider of course if it is halal :mrgreen: why not. Also it's called INTEGRATION, we are not in SOmalia anymore, live your own life and don't worry about what othets do.

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby SahanGalbeed » Tue Sep 30, 2008 5:58 pm

Haileybailey what do you want ?
a white boy ? a" black" guy, or a somali guy ?
tell us

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby Lexmark » Tue Sep 30, 2008 6:00 pm

YOU, CONFUSED lil boys like you that ' the problem !!
I have no problem with this but whats wrong with the plenty of somali men out there?
You either have a problem with it , and say your piece or just keep it quiet .


Lexbitc.h yeah , your kind , gossiping , porno gloryfying gangsta wanna be dooro bit.ch of your sort , to be exact !
Naag baad tahay , maadama aad naag tahay na , dumarka kale waxaad ka sheegta ba , waa ka xaasidnimo , taasina Ilaah baa mamnuucay ! :up:

looool, i dont watch porn, am not a ganster and why are you bringing qabil in to this


and can we discuss things without you getting emotional

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Re: Somali Women and Revert Marriage Phenomenon

Postby HaileyBailey » Tue Sep 30, 2008 6:01 pm

[quote="marcassmith"]i do have a problem!

i am a patriot and dont want my homogenous nation to be extinction in about 100 years which is how long i have estimated before somalis become extinct species. [quote]


Don't worry about that hun, the work is being done by those back home, have you not seen the stats on Somali births, looooooool. Somalis are the biggest group in Africa currently that is growing in a very high rate, even with the war and hunger.

Btw, look beyond your neighborhood/town...this problems only affected those that live in Europe/maybe North America.


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