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I don't believe that people should bring children into the world unless they can afford to raise them
I think he's right. If you cannot afford to meet a child's basic needs (food, clothing, medical insurance, etc) you shouldn't have one.I don't believe that people should bring children into the world unless they can afford to raise them
thats my only discussion
I think he's right. If you cannot afford to meet a child's basic needs (food, clothing, medical insurance, etc) you shouldn't have one.I don't believe that people should bring children into the world unless they can afford to raise them
thats my only discussion
Deciding to have children knowing you CANNOT afford to provide basic necessities is absolutely selfish and irresponsible; my goodness, it's basically the highest point of irresponsibility! These are HUMANS who are absolutely dependent on you; they're not cute, little toys you only want because they make you feel "complete".
Firi walaal i can only speak on behalf of myself (assuming this is directed to the general eye) and im inshala not planning to have kids intentionally (god forbid) on the streets, homeless nor pennyless ... who is going to father them anyway Laakiin inshala neither would i wait untill i approached my 30's to have kids just because i was planning to build a beach house in costa rica or buy that condo in toronto...Obviously that is an exageration my point: Gaalo isyeel yeelka ma fiicna and im not saying that you are, but at the end of the day allah knows best you plan it all out whilst your rich today and become pregnant tomorow,loose it all and by that time give birth whilst you are poor Allahu yaclam...Deciding to have children knowing you CANNOT afford to provide basic necessities is absolutely selfish and irresponsible; my goodness, it's basically the highest point of irresponsibility! These are HUMANS who are absolutely dependent on you; they're not cute, little toys you only want because they make you feel "complete".
I think he's right. If you cannot afford to meet a child's basic needs (food, clothing, medical insurance, etc) you shouldn't have one.I don't believe that people should bring children into the world unless they can afford to raise them
thats my only discussion
if you can't provide for children or your family and having them while knowing you can't, you're better off not having them^ thats not what the quran and sunah states, adigu maadan keenin ciyaalkan aduunka, ilaah bay leeyihiin. so try your best to provide for them, and leave the rest for allah!
Yeah, yeah, that's nice, but what was the point of quoting me? I'm saying that people who can barely provide for themselves shouldn't take on the responsibility of children. Birth control's permissible in Islam for a reason.Gaalo isyeel yeelka ma fiicna and im not saying that you are, but at the end of the day allah knows best you plan it all out whilst your rich today and become pregnant tomorow,loose it all and by that time give birth whilst you are poo
you didnt think so what??? anyways thats not what the sunnah said. if that was the case, then im sure all the poor middle-eastern/african and asian people wouldnt give birth!if you can't provide for children or your family and having them while knowing you can't, you're better off not having them^ thats not what the quran and sunah states, adigu maadan keenin ciyaalkan aduunka, ilaah bay leeyihiin. so try your best to provide for them, and leave the rest for allah!
would you get with a bum and have his children?
i didn't think so
what we think of wealth in our society doesn't always translate elsewhere
you didnt think so what??? anyways thats not what the sunnah said. if that was the case, then im sure all the poor middle-eastern/african and asian people wouldnt give birth!
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