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<The benefits of get married early>

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Would you perfer to get married young or old.....?

 
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<The benefits of get married early>

Postby Mujaheedah-fee-Sabi'lilah » Wed Sep 07, 2005 7:23 pm

A-salam

All praise is due to Allaah, Lord of all the worlds. Peace and blessings be upon the Messenger, his household and companions.

Fellow Muslims! The most truthful speech is the Book of Allaah and the best guidance is that of Muhammad. Every innovation is misguidance and every misguidance leads to Hell.

Fear Allaah and know that tomorrow, you will be made to stand in front of your Lord and be recompensed for your deeds.

“O mankind! Be dutiful to your Lord, Who created you from a single person (Adam), and from him (Adam) He created his wife (Hawwâ (Eve)) and from them both He created many men and women; and fear Allâh through Whom you demand (your mutual rights), and (do not cut the relations of) the wombs (kinship). Surely, Allâh is Ever an All-Watcher over you.”

(An-Nisaa 4:1)

Beware of procrastination, for having deep inclination towards this world makes one forget the Hereafter, as following the desires blocks the way to the truth.

And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect.”

(Ar-Room 30:21)

Marriage promotes purity and chastity, keeps the married person away from illegal sexual intercourse and sinful activities. It brings about blessing and makes the society live a morally secure and comfortable life. Allaah makes marriage a virtue and a way of the Prophets. He says addressing His Messenger,

“And indeed We sent Messengers before you (O Muhammad (peace be upon him)) and made for them wives and offspring.”

(Ar-Ra‘d 13:38)

Delaying marriage until the end of studies or after getting a job and having financial capability or delaying marriage in order to avoid commitments or for any other reasons. All this is part of the evil plans of Satan by which he brainwashes humans especially the youth through the filthy films and serials that are aired on the satellite TV or published in magazines and newspapers. This has created a lot of misconceptions about marital life, corrupted the people’s morality and instilled in them mistaken ideas that opened the door to a great evil.

Delaying marriage contradicts Islaamic teachings as it contradicts the human nature. Sociologists affirmed that early marriage is the best marriage even if the financial condition is hard. They also affirmed that it is a major means of attaining stable psychological and physical health; and that the children born from early marriage are more intelligent and healthier and have less physical disabilities.

In addition to the above, early marriage makes one’s religion complete and makes one chaste. It is also established that early marriage is a major factor in many people’s success in their academic life. So when an artificial impediment is put in the way of this natural institution, the consequences will be woes upon the society.

whole article > http://www.islamicboard.com/showthread.php?t=4677

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Postby optimist_1 » Wed Sep 07, 2005 7:28 pm

I notice so many sisters saying im gonna marry after study Sad

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Postby Samatr » Wed Sep 07, 2005 7:33 pm

Let see the benefits, my grandfather married at 15.

He had 40 kids, first child when he was 15 last child when he was 75.

There's got to be a benefit with 40 kids. Laughing Laughing

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Postby michael_ital » Wed Sep 07, 2005 8:25 pm

Main benefit is you can hate the *&^$# after 10 years and STILL be more'n young enough to remarry, divorce and marry AGAIN!! Laughing Laughing

Sam, I WOULD agree with ya, but in this day and age, living in the West, all's 40 kids will do to you is drive you to the poorhouse and/or insane asylum. Laughing Laughing Laughing


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