Shukaansi,Somali way

[Tuushi]

What entails a Somali date?

Is it xalaalified in some way mise waa dont go there kinda thing?

It is my believe that naag dhexda laqabsadey kama foga sariirta ee is there any physical aspect of it?

I am really curious.So humour me and share ur theories.

[Thuganomics]

Chaperone,Chaperone,Chaperone
If you want to keep it halal.Otherwise like you said the devil will be the Chaperone

[Alphanumeric]

Planning something eh?

I have no theories.

It is my believe that naag dhexda laqabsadey kama foga sariirta ee is there any physical aspect of it?

What does this mean? Grabbed in the middle?


TG, what would you consider a chaperone? Does it have to be a wali?

[Thuganomics]

Planning something eh?

I have no theories.

It is my believe that naag dhexda laqabsadey kama foga sariirta ee is there any physical aspect of it?

What does this mean? Grabbed in the middle?


TG, what would you consider a chaperone? Does it have to be a wali?

No just a third party sxb preferably a female friend of the girl

[Alphanumeric]

Noted.

[Tuushi]

Maya Alpha ,i am a lost cause.


Grabbed at the waist.

TG I am wondering how they usually go,what is a typical Somali dating?

Chaperone is a great idea.

[Alphanumeric]

Ah, so physical contact? If it's kept halaal, I would think not.

I think it's just... a date. All you need to do is take into account a third or fourth party. Assuming something more casual than dimly lit restaurants lol.

[Tuushi]

Alpha,that was a general statement i made. I dont think we can xalaalify physical contact without marriage.

I was not trying to find a way to make dating less dambi,i wanted to know how a typical Somali date went down.

[TheblueNwhite]

The best shukaansi is when you are over her family house, playing turub with her dad and shukaansi texting her whenever is the dad's turn to deal the cards.

[Alphanumeric]

Let's wait till Twist gets in here. I'd be of no help.

[Thuganomics]

If both of your aims are marriage,which is the idea
It doesn't really matter where you go or what you do as long as you take into account what A1 said
The idea is to get to know each other.So just make you date feel at ease and talk,talk talk!!
Every situation is gonna be different and there is no magic formula.

[Tuushi]

If both of your aims are marriage,which is the idea
It doesn't really matter where you go or what you do as long as you take into account what A1 said
The idea is to get to know each other.So just make you date feel at ease and talk,talk talk!!
Every situation is gonna be different and there is no magic formula.

Good tips Tg


It seems no one will shed some light into what goes on eh?

[Lamagoodle]

Ma berigii hore mise maanta? Berigii hore sheekadu sharci baay lahayd. You met, you talked (if you were lucky, you touched her hand) and if you even luckier you might get a quickie on the mouth (dhuunkasho) after several meetings; no presents, no dinners.

Story telling did the trick.

Beryahaan xaaladu waa sidaan;

You invite her to dinner; buy her presents and make a move to the sariir. Kiss on the first date. Talk about your wallet and if she is good she will also talk about her purse. Talk about your fantasies.

Waa naag soomaali ah oo koleey waay is qaaliyeeyneysaa.

Wax xalaal la yiraahdo ma jiraan but a few quotes from the quran will not do harm.

Haddaay garoob tahay; xaalku waa " qodobsiro from day one. Both of you have nothing to lose. But, don't forget a condom just in case ,

[Tuushi]

Lama Thanks for the input.

In most cases markaas,physical contact is the norm miyaa?

[Lamagoodle]

Lama Thanks for the input.

In most cases markaas,physical contact is the norm miyaa?

Yes Tuushi. Somalis do not live in isolation. With modern ICT technologies there is a game change.