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Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby VeiledGarbasar » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:04 pm

If a guy wanted the girl, he will simple marry her and that was it.
True, but he would first kidnap her, literally with brute force. Take her to a Sheik who would conduct the nikaax/rape ceremony. 'Consumate' the marriage. And then bring her back to the family who would have no choice but to accept the nikaax-ised rape of their daughter.

This was/is a widespread practice.

On a per-capita basis, I honestly believe there is more rape & sexual assault happening in Muslim countries, than in non-Muslim countries. I don't know how many of you did Tawaaf at the Kacba, but it is well-known that there are plenty of men who take advantage of the crowded conditions to rub up against the hind parts of the worshippers. Groping women is pretty much pro forma in Egypt. You just reach out, cop a feel, and be about your business.

Thanks to the hush-hush stigma & shame surrounding sex, rape, sexual assault, and loss of virginity, rapists and their like are flourishing in wadamaha muslinka. :down:
Hey Love, what was your ex-nick? Mine was Warsan.

Erm, no there was no kidnapping the ones I know, and just to let you know Somali men were forced into marriage in the olden days too, not that I'm saying that is acceptable too. When it comes to your husband forcing himself onto you, lets admit it that is usually rare, simply because the two people have married and know what's to come after that.

Even if the kidnapping was widespread this was dhaqan, I'm pretty sure most ladies would not resist and if they did it was not on the same scale of having a man come to you, abuse you, rape you and then leave you. In this case, he comes, kidnaps you, tells you his marrying you and takes you to a shaykh, then the wedding happens? Do you see how it can lessen the damage?

You are absolutely wrong! Yes, sexual-assault is rife in SOME Muslim countries, but NEVER rape. Secondly, sexual-assault is rife in the West too. Heck, I had 2 men follow me home and I literally just got away, even worse I had a man try to assault me in my abaya and properly covered no less. :|

But I'm totally against the hush-hush environment and agree with you that it only allows such things to flourish.

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby Areesa » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:10 pm

This is very sad, I wish her a speedy recovery. And to the people wish evil upon other are just sad. May Allah help us all.

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby ModerateMuslim » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:16 pm


Erm, no there was no kidnapping the ones I know, and just to let you know Somali men were forced into marriage in the olden days too, not that I'm saying that is acceptable too. When it comes to your husband forcing himself onto you, lets admit it that is usually rare, simply because the two people have married and know what's to come after that.

Even if the kidnapping was widespread this was dhaqan, I'm pretty sure most ladies would not resist and if they did it was not on the same scale of having a man come to you, abuse you, rape you and then leave you. In this case, he comes, kidnaps you, tells you his marrying you and takes you to a shaykh, then the wedding happens? Do you see how it can lessen the damage?

You are absolutely wrong! Yes, sexual-assault is rife in SOME Muslim countries, but NEVER rape.
whats difference between sexual assault and rape? isn't rape also sexual assault?

don't try to justify sexual assault. it's sick crime worthy of death.

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby 1nemansquad » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:18 pm

She is not raped, she was attacked. If you want to address rape in the Somali community open a thread.

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby VeiledGarbasar » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:32 pm

Somali-Star,

Hey brother, weli seef-la-bood maa tahay? Good to see you alive and kicking.

To be honest, they are both bad, but rape is worse. Some ladies die from rape, others contract HIV, others get pregnant....essentially it really messes up life for the girl in a way that sexual-assault might/can not do. Did you know grabbing a girls bum or breast is sexual-assault? Would you put that in the same category as rape, I would think no.
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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby SultanOrder » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:34 pm

lol @leftist, I'm always suspicious of people who describe in the most extremest senses to justify their arguments. Somalis use to kidnap you blah blah blah :lol:

I know of Sheikhal were it is part of their culture to run away with the women, always with her consent, but I would not describe it as kidnapping. :lol:

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby DisplacedDiraac » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:38 pm

Kidnap women/brides ah? You mean the snatch uh?
Travellers and Gypsies do that.. :|

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby KimJongIllest » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:40 pm

Sad......


Reported here:

http://puntlandi.com/?p=42002

Is she OG ?
Abgaal with A rap mom, which is why she is so heavily sland involvement in her musical career

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby Areesa » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:41 pm

Kidnap women/brides ah? You mean the snatch uh?
Travellers and Gypsies do that.. :|
I've seen a documentary where the Gypsy boys kidnap the girls in-front of their parents. The more she resists the more aggressive the guys get. It was a total shocker.

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby AhlulbaytSoldier » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:41 pm

It seems that the people who invented this lie are the ones who dream of raping Nimco Dareen for hours :wow:

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby Executive » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:44 pm

Sad......


Reported here:

http://puntlandi.com/?p=42002

Is she OG ?
Abgaal with A rap mom, which is why she is so heavily sland involvement in her musical career
:lol: :lol: :lol: I think you are refering to Ikraan Caraale
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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby VeiledGarbasar » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:45 pm

PO,

Don't get happs mate, you're not getting the chance to kidnap your crush, you're in the USA now. :lol:

Westldnshawty,

Wax badaan aa ku dhafay, potentially there could be a kidnapped great-grandmother in your ancestral family. :lol:

From what I know, both men and women were forced to marry. Ladies would go to a hut/ or a family hut and their son has to marry the girl, if she doesn't waa an outright insult and clans and families would get involved, me heard.

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby KimJongIllest » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:49 pm

Sad......


Reported here:

http://puntlandi.com/?p=42002

Is she OG ?
Abgaal with A rap mom, which is why she is so heavily sland involvement in her musical career
:lol: :lol: :lol: I think you are refering to Ikraan Caraale
Smh keep mixing them up. Somali singers all sound the same

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby DisplacedDiraac » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:49 pm


Wax badaan aa ku dhafay, potentially there could be a kidnapped great-grandmother in your ancestral family. :lol:
:leon: Wa wax caajib ah me think..
Snatched gypsy style..

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Re: Nimco Dareen Was Raped :(

Postby SultanOrder » Thu Aug 23, 2012 6:52 pm

Veiled, I actually went to a mehr of a "kidnapped girl", when they were having the party at night. She looked happy and fine. They were going to go to her parents in a week or so. :lol:


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