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Would you claim an ex?

Postby SiennaEarth » Sun Feb 17, 2013 8:27 pm

Would you tell someone that a person is your ex? Recently a mate of mine (not so close) started telling me about this guy she met and she really likes. She introduced me to him last week and it happened to be my ex and I just laughed to myself and kept my mouth shut as she introduced us like we've never met before. Lucky for him I don't claim ex's :eat:

I can't stand people who feel the need to tell everyone you're their ex. Like negro please, don't claim me. Especially when you haven't actually been with them but just talked for quite some time and kept it in that friendly zone and they claim you, telling people you're their ex or used to have a thing or whatever. HATE THAT!

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Re: Would you claim an ex?

Postby Tuushi » Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:16 pm

I dont have any ex`s. :stylin:

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Re: Would you claim an ex?

Postby Floweroflife » Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:17 pm

Would you tell someone that a person is your ex? Recently a mate of mine (not so close) started telling me about this guy she met and she really likes. She introduced me to him last week and it happened to be my ex and I just laughed to myself and kept my mouth shut as she introduced us like we've never met before. Lucky for him I don't claim ex's :eat:

I can't stand people who feel the need to tell everyone you're their ex. Like negro please, don't claim me. Especially when you haven't actually been with them but just talked for quite some time and kept it in that friendly zone and they claim you, telling people you're their ex or used to have a thing or whatever. HATE THAT!
Do you think that you're being such a good "friend" by keeping her in the dark about the past that you and the guy that she likes share? This is why i am so careful about the people i call "friends"

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Re: Would you claim an ex?

Postby AgentOfChaos » Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:25 pm

No I wouldn't claim.

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Re: Would you claim an ex?

Postby SiennaEarth » Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:27 pm

Yes actually I think I am. She doesn't need to know, the past is the past. She says she likes him very much and I know if I tell her she will end it with him, so I rather him tell her himself when the time is right. I'm not about to ruin someones relationship.

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Re: Would you claim an ex?

Postby Marques » Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:28 pm

Yes actually I think I am. She doesn't need to know, the past is the past. She says she likes him very much and I know if I tell her she will end it with him, so I rather him tell her himself when the time is right. I'm not about to ruin someones relationship.
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Re: Would you claim an ex?

Postby Floweroflife » Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:32 pm

Yes actually I think I am. She doesn't need to know, the past is the past. She says she likes him very much and I know if I tell her she will end it with him, so I rather him tell her himself when the time is right. I'm not about to ruin someones relationship.
I get that but it doesn't make too much sense. It seems to be that you don't really care about her. A good friend would tell their friend about someone that they've been there with. Wherever "there" is. Just to let you know, she will find out and she will be upset because you didn't tell her. It's dishonest.

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Re: Would you claim an ex?

Postby Coldoon » Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:47 pm

Would you tell someone that a person is your ex? Recently a mate of mine (not so close) started telling me about this guy she met and she really likes. She introduced me to him last week and it happened to be my ex and I just laughed to myself and kept my mouth shut as she introduced us like we've never met before. Lucky for him I don't claim ex's :eat:

I can't stand people who feel the need to tell everyone you're their ex. Like negro please, don't claim me. Especially when you haven't actually been with them but just talked for quite some time and kept it in that friendly zone and they claim you, telling people you're their ex or used to have a thing or whatever. HATE THAT!
Isn't that what you're doing right now? You should say, "I can't stand myself for the need to tell everyone about my ex".
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Re: Would you claim an ex?

Postby AbdiWahab252 » Sun Feb 17, 2013 10:06 pm

There was a time when my Ex would have gotten hitched to my Abti. Now thats a bitch knowing that you know your "Habaryar" intimately.

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Re: Would you claim an ex?

Postby SiennaEarth » Sun Feb 17, 2013 10:09 pm

Yes actually I think I am. She doesn't need to know, the past is the past. She says she likes him very much and I know if I tell her she will end it with him, so I rather him tell her himself when the time is right. I'm not about to ruin someones relationship.
I get that but it doesn't make too much sense. It seems to be that you don't really care about her. A good friend would tell their friend about someone that they've been there with. Wherever "there" is. Just to let you know, she will find out and she will be upset because you didn't tell her. It's dishonest.
The thing is me and this girl are not really tight friends just normal friends. She's been single for quite some time and she finally found someone and she talks about him like she likes him a lot. Do I really want to ruin that? Maybe later on in the relationship when I know she won't split with him if he hasn't told her I will. I just can't forgive myself if they split up coz of me. Plus if there was anything wrong with the guy I would have told her straight away, but I genuinely think he is a nice guy and don't think he will wrong her. So there is nothing to tell.

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Re: Would you claim an ex?

Postby SiennaEarth » Sun Feb 17, 2013 10:12 pm

There was a time when my Ex would have gotten hitched to my Abti. Now thats a bitch knowing that you know your "Habaryar" intimately.
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