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Mercy Marriages

Postby AbdiWahab252 » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:14 am

Are they fair ? Especially if you have an older relation who never got married and wants to start a family ? I got a really nice cousin who is average looking but a great woman but she is now approaching her late 30s. Would it be wrong if one of my other male relatives just married her so that she can have children ? Rather than be an old, single spinster ?

Scholars, would this grant a Farax ajar ?

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby Hyperactive » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:18 am

lol she can be perfect second wife. she doesnt have kids. so yeah she has more chances than a younger single mother.

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby AbdiWahab252 » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:18 am

Hyper,

Adeer, would a Farax get ajar ?

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby Hyperactive » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:19 am

:lol: :lol: depends your intention adeer. ma ajer inad ka hesho baad rabta mise inad isku nooriso adika :lol:

you are the only one can answer. :lol:

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby AgentOfChaos » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:22 am

:comeon:

Sounds like pity marriage to me. That's sad and wrong.

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby AbdiWahab252 » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:24 am

Hyper,

My adeer once said, "Nin kasto bakhtigiis ha jiito." He married his divorced cousin with 7 kids after he divorced his wife who had 8 kids and she got married to her cousin. People were shocked why he married his garoob cousin with so many kids instead of gabar yar. He felt if his ex-wife was fit enough to be married by her cousin, why not his.

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby salool » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:29 am

Maybe she liks her life the way it's, guurko ma qasba.Dadba singlnimada happy ku ah.

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby Tuushi » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:31 am

Not everyone has to get married. Before u organize the pity party,make sure that is what she wants.

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby Basra- » Sun Mar 31, 2013 10:41 am

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL@abdi


Abdi I think the guilt in u is talking---lol u r single, why don't u marry her? I think u feel obligated to marry her but sadly - u is GAY. :dj:


Everything waa caalaf. Not everyone has to be 'rich' 'married' or 'beautiful'---look at our dearest salool's wisdom. :dj:

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby kambuli » Sun Mar 31, 2013 11:22 am

A/W,

Why would a 30yrs old be seen as an old, old women who needs a Mercy/Pity Marriage...30yrs old girl is not old..It is by the time a girl finishes her Medical degree plus residence....

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby greenday » Sun Mar 31, 2013 1:36 pm

AW at this rate adaa wax ku qaraba kiilo rabi doontid :lol: halmar madaxa meel lagal and make mini AWs :blessed:

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby AbdiWahab252 » Sun Mar 31, 2013 1:39 pm

AW at this rate adaa wax ku qaraba kiilo rabi doontid :lol: halmar madaxa meel lagal and make mini AWs :blessed:
:lol: :lol: :lol:

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby zulaika » Sun Mar 31, 2013 1:45 pm

A/W,

Why would a 30yrs old be seen as an old, old women who needs a Mercy/Pity Marriage...30yrs old girl is not old..It is by the time a girl finishes her Medical degree plus residence....
Kambuli,

In Somali years..30 is old if not the tipping point to geezerville :) I turned 30 last year and folks are telling me "how come just one kid? u don't have much time left, give the man some more babies". So if this sort of age jab is what a 30 year old married woman with kid is getting from society...I can only imagine what dreadful things single girls 30+ hear everyday..

A/W,

adiga u should ask Allah's Mercy to help u get over this war with women :)

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby Hyperactive » Sun Mar 31, 2013 3:09 pm

30 years old not old for a human. but difinately too old to get married and to have kids if you are woman. authobillilah,imagine you run after teenager kid while you are in your mid to late 40s.

zuleikha, is too late for you to have any more kid. lol islan bad tahay hada. :lol:

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Re: Mercy Marriages

Postby AbdiWahab252 » Sun Mar 31, 2013 6:32 pm



A/W,

adiga u should ask Allah's Mercy to help u get over this war with Somali women :)
I have no beef abayo. Actually, I am quite pleasant and not a garoob maker.


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