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I have a friend who drives a taxi for a living. He's been married for ten years and has four children.
He was telling me the other day that he picked up a Somali woman in her mid thirties. They got chatting and to cut a long story short got married. He visits his new wife whenever he can, staying over a few nights a week when he should be on night shift.
He has no interest in fathering any children with the new wife, and is in it purely for the sex.
Life with her first wife was becoming stale and his libido was through the floor....now he is rampant.
Now what I want to ask snetters is this.
Is it wrong for men to fulfill their needs, implanted in us by Allah (swt)?
Their relationship is within the bounds of Islam...the new wife has companionship, the first wife benefits indirectly by her husbands revived libido, the husband is born again.....it's a win win for all.
Please don't be judgmental..... try to be pragmatic and realistic.
Is it wrong for men to fulfill their needs, implanted in us by Allah (swt)?
So it's a secret wife, and his other wife doesn't know about this. If he was just interested in sex, why couldn't he just get a girlfriend or pay a hooker? At least he would've saved money on getting married.
Imagine if one of the wife's he is married to someone else? He's repu would be ruined and both would certainly leave him. And if he has any kids, they too would probably hate him.
What your friend is doing is very wrong, and if you really care about him, u would speak and tell him before he ruins his life anymore.
I thought what he said was reasonable so what's with all the anger? lol Love, maxaa ku helay, ayeeyo?So it's a secret wife, and his other wife doesn't know about this. If he was just interested in sex, why couldn't he just get a girlfriend or pay a hooker? At least he would've saved money on getting married.
Imagine if one of the wife's he is married to someone else? He's repu would be ruined and both would certainly leave him. And if he has any kids, they too would probably hate him.
What your friend is doing is very wrong, and if you really care about him, u would speak and tell him before he ruins his life anymore.
What I love about Snet is some of the most fked up humans in existence have a platform to say what they want about someone else's actions.
I quit TC because of you. Friking animal.
If he just wanted to have sex, he could've gotten a girl friend. Just because he "married" her, doesn't make it any more Halal. When you marry someone, you have to do it for the right reasons, not because you are always horny and ur first isn't attractive. It's still Haram.Gamer, he said in the story he does not want to have kids with the second wife. Plus, (it looks like qudbo-siro marriage) unless you're having a publicized marriage it doesn't cost a thing. The way the whole thing smells, I think the second chick is aware that he has a wife and children and is OK with such condition (possibly a garoob who doesn't mind the company, aherm 'sex' and want it the "halal" way).
never call a lady a bitch....now take that guus out of your mouth and have some respect when you speak to a lady.No you haven't bitch, weren't you just there on Monday asking me to show you my ceeb on cam?
Anyways this isn't about me or TC, it's about helping this Qaldaan dude's friend.
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