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Taxi driver with a secret wife

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby GeoSeven » Thu Dec 04, 2014 1:39 pm

I won't judge his motives and impetus because I cannot relate to his life, but society and the law will. It's technically cheating, a criminal offence. Your friend best have security measures in place because if the original wife finds out Image

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby Cherine » Thu Dec 04, 2014 1:53 pm

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Does the secret wife know of his intention not to have any children with her?

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby LobsterUnit » Thu Dec 04, 2014 3:12 pm

I am patenting a new somali energy drink.the drink will contain ginger, subag oil and whey protein.it will cure bidaar, shan second sydrome and divorces In the somali community.origin dervish, tell ur friend.

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby YummyMummy » Thu Dec 04, 2014 3:34 pm

It doesn't matter how many he marries, the point is that he should communicate his needs & intentions with his current wife. It shouldn't be a surprise.

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby HooBariiska » Thu Dec 04, 2014 3:41 pm

So much anger n ceeb on this topic. Guys please xishooda,it's Friday n read some quraan

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby original dervish » Thu Dec 04, 2014 8:05 pm

I must say there have been some interesting responses.
Knowthyself.....No it's not me. :)
Julkimi.....what's with the rages lately?
Aishawoqooyi....You know how it goes down. :up:
Cherine.....I doubt she knows his true intentions....although I can't say for sure.

From what I can make out the secret wife is at the stage where she is afraid to be on her own.
For most folk it's hard to understand this....we're surrounded by people whom love and support us unconditionally.
Imagine having nobody....and perhaps a chequered past....Somali's whispering at you in the street.
Wouldn't you snatch the opportunity for some companionship and intimacy?

I decline to past judgement.....folk live and die by their own decisions.
PS I wanna do a sahal and close the thread now. :)

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby Sophisticate » Fri Dec 05, 2014 12:39 am

I must say there have been some interesting responses.
Knowthyself.....No it's not me. :)
Julkimi.....what's with the rages lately?
Aishawoqooyi....You know how it goes down. :up:
Cherine.....I doubt she knows his true intentions....although I can't say for sure.

From what I can make out the secret wife is at the stage where she is afraid to be on her own.
For most folk it's hard to understand this....we're surrounded by people whom love and support us unconditionally.
Imagine having nobody....and perhaps a chequered past....Somali's whispering at you in the street.
Wouldn't you snatch the opportunity for some companionship and intimacy?


I decline to past judgement.....folk live and die by their own decisions.
PS I wanna do a sahal and close the thread now. :)
Even if you don't have a "chequered past" its better to be single for life than settle for sloppy seconds. Being happily single, financially successful and helping others is far more life-affirming than getting hitched to a cabbie with kids that's already tied down.

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby Jabuutawi » Fri Dec 05, 2014 2:04 am

Are they shia? I know, you're probably going, wtf! Well, in shiasm (is that even a word?) you can marry her on an hourly, daily, weekly and even monthly basis. Thank heavens for shia. Disclosure: I recently attended a shia mosque, waley, it is the bomb and thinking about converting. Am I really converting since they are already muslims? The only concern I have is hitting my back with metal rods during one of shia's holiest days...not sure what that day is. Got to do with Imam Hussein, or is it Imam Hasan...confused now.

Back to the topic, long story short. Advice them to go shia and everything will be resolved. Sex will be halal even on an hourly consummation and then divorce...on to the next one Image

I am now ready to have intercourse with the women on this forum. Intellectual intercourse of exchanging ideas, of course.

Note: Big headed mod, you can't ban me because the word "intercourse" has many meanings. If you ban me, that would be travesty of justice.

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby Sophisticate » Fri Dec 05, 2014 2:38 am

Jabuutawai as always you are playing with fire. lol

Sometimes I think you act like a prurient adolescent then I remember that you are only 19.
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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby Jabuutawi » Fri Dec 05, 2014 2:49 am

I turn 20 on the 17th of December. You are invited to my birthday party, just you and me at a fine restaurant overlooking the Pacific Ocean as the sun sets...talking, looking at each other, holding hands, feeling all warm and fuzzy. I serenade few songs on your ear, very sensual but not sexual. Of course, this all happens after I ask the old man to extend your hand to me Image

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby Amirsade » Fri Dec 05, 2014 3:01 am

The secret wife is always temporary unless she's young with no kids. A famous businessman in my area married a young wife, he's second to his first wife who has 7 kids with him, after a while the first wife find out and raised hell, she wanted divorce.

The businessman offer the first wife something she can't refused. He bought her the biggest somali restaurant in the city and name it after her. He divorce the second wife under some sort of deal.

The first wife accepted the offer and told the husband to sleep on the coach until further notice.



Every time I ate from that restaurant, I would remember that story. She's is happy and running the business well.


With money life can be easy. But if u are a taxi driver and want to ball like a businessman than u are in for surprise

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby Sophisticate » Fri Dec 05, 2014 3:08 am

Jabuutawi

As charming as you may be at times, you forget I'm your habaryar. I took care of you and now you're trying to chop me. Remember the time you had a play date with my little bro back in 95' when you guys were in diapers.

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby KnowThySelf23 » Fri Dec 05, 2014 3:23 am

Jabuutawi

As charming as you may be at times, you forget I'm your habaryar. I took care of you and now you're trying to chop me. Remember the time you had a play date with my little bro back in 95' when you guys were in diapers.

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lol wait you know him in real life?

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby Jabuutawi » Fri Dec 05, 2014 3:29 am

Sophi, that is funny habaryar. I find few years separating us as nothing really. When I am 40, you are in your 40s too. In the grand scheme of things, age is nothing but a number.

We were all once in diapers and now grown ups, praise be to Allah.

Should you change your mind, I need to know your dad's number so that I give him a call of our plans. The only question left for you is whether you want to honeymoon in French Polynesia or Cabo San Lucas.

Have a nice Friday and weekend sis (or is it future wifey?)

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Re: Taxi driver with a secret wife

Postby original dervish » Fri Dec 05, 2014 5:39 am

Sophisticate....who are we to say they shouldn't be together?
They wanted each other and got married....end of story.
PS It may be easy for you to live a cold lonely life.....for others it's worse than death.


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