MashaAllahMy Uncle told me: Never get lazy with your wife. Don't be complacent. Always do what's good for her, be romantic with her even 10 Years into the marriage, and make sure you have good communication with her.
Anyone can "people watch" you. Why are you denying your wife her legal right, what are you hidingI don't even mean it in a terrible way, but it's no one's place to stalk me, let alone my wife. Any sane person would go ballistic, and that is one sure way to end a relationship, because it just goes down hill from there. And yeah, you insane.