[quote="musika man"][quote="Ugaas Diini"][quote]with this girl, there is no room for divorce unless you are stupid like costa and mad mullah. [/quote]
Musika-man, what is wrong with girls from single parent families? I like to know cos an elder person told me the same thing but gave me reasons why....give me your reasons.[/quote]
ugaas, girls become like their moms. girls from single mom households, all they know is being a single mom is socially acceptable and won't put any effort into the marriage and when the going gets tough, she becomes a new single mom before the husband realizes.
keep away from them.[/quote]
I cn understand your other points but this one is just weird.
I think the screw might be right your one of them guys that have a phobia of ‘independent’ women.
Don’t worry its natural, but here is some advice, having a wife that is totally reliant on you is a negative. Not only will you be over worked, but she will come to be really dependent on you that you wont be able to breathe without her ringing you 10 times aday, ‘Mohamed, abowee caano mayalaan ..bla bla’
She might develop some mental disorder where she thinks she can’t survive without you, or she might be one of them annoying women that say ‘My husband thinks, says, knows, told me’ and can never think for themselves! God help you with one of them.
Go for a independent sister, who can be your equal in everything, marriage is a partnership, no-one needs to lead no-one.
You go it backwards btw a girl from a single-household, will probably know what marriage is all about more then anyone else, coming from a failed house she will be willing to work that much more to make hers work.
Nagin congrats sis, I think its marriage season this yr Lol,
GuYs To Avoid--
1)--Qaad lovers, they will always choose their jaad before home and wife.
2) Street Farahs, they think they know women, and carry a big head full of charm and jokes. -comes to marriage they get bored easily or they realize their wife is better then them so they suffer and usual beat her to show her 'he is the men'
3) the old Ducaals, has 3 other families, usual wants more children or just to feel young again...