Places like Ohio, MN, Atlanta, Toronto etc. (I've been to all of those places) you'll find people in every game. You'll find very serious about the deen types, strong Somali culture types, low life guys and hoodrat chicks etc.
VA is a smaller everybody knows everybody tight nit community and even stuff like earrings or tatoos is considered a BIG DEAL.
I've been to MN and I saw a guy fingering a girl on a bench in broad daylight.