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Men have more advantage

Postby Leila2007 » Sat Jan 26, 2008 3:50 pm

I have been thinking lately and I have realised that men have a better chance to succed careerwise than women irrespective of eductional level. The reason I am saying this is because you graduate from college with a good degree and work and get promoted and before you get to where you want to be (management / Seniour mnagement) you have to start having a family.

Have 2-3 kids will take a maximum of upto 10 years before they are school going age and everytime you return to work after months off you have to start again and you need flexible hours and all that. Not all employers are happy with this so your chances of even more promotion and progression is slow...

So to all my brother you guys have a chance of not only getthing educated to PH levels but and opportunity to progress into all sorts of levels. Dont waste this opportunity and take it for granted.
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby HELWAA » Sat Jan 26, 2008 3:52 pm

2-3 KIDS AA....walaal soomaalido waxay dhasha 10 kids yaa ukhti.
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby The-Screw » Sat Jan 26, 2008 3:53 pm

you just realized this?


wow.
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby Phd in naago kudis » Sat Jan 26, 2008 3:54 pm

[quote="HELWAA"]2-3 KIDS AA....walaal soomaalido waxay dhasha 10 kids yaa ukhti.[/quote]

that is right my mother had 11 childeren in all

10 boys and 1 girl
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby HELWAA » Sat Jan 26, 2008 3:54 pm

[quote="Phd in naago kudis"][quote="HELWAA"]2-3 KIDS AA....walaal soomaalido waxay dhasha 10 kids yaa ukhti.[/quote]

that is right my mother had 11 childeren in all

10 boys and 1 girl[/quote]


mashallah.
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby Leila2007 » Sat Jan 26, 2008 3:55 pm

lol Helwaa

10 kids in this part of the world?

Lol Screw

Walahi I just wake up today and realise however much I try I wont be a CEO one day so time to start thinking of my own business however small that will be inshaallah
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby razzberry » Sat Jan 26, 2008 3:56 pm

Well a woman doesn't have to have kids and if she does she could have just one.

This is also a bigger problem in the US. in many European countries they have plans to help women and men with young children keep a career while caring for young children.
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby Phd in naago kudis » Sat Jan 26, 2008 3:57 pm

[quote="HELWAA"][quote="Phd in naago kudis"][quote="HELWAA"]2-3 KIDS AA....walaal soomaalido waxay dhasha 10 kids yaa ukhti.[/quote]

that is right my mother had 11 childeren in all

10 boys and 1 girl[/quote]


mashallah.[/quote]


mansallah indeed , some of the boys died in clan war
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby HELWAA » Sat Jan 26, 2008 3:58 pm

Yes Leila.......i even had a neighbour who had 13 children..mashallah...naagta gacan baan oo taagey walle...but allah blessed her with good husband who helped her.
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby *Nobleman* » Sat Jan 26, 2008 4:01 pm

Yep men have an advantage. But i'm an old skool guy, i'd prefer my wife to stay at home and run the family structure. I would even argue that the female working is counter productive. But in todays world, the females cant afford not to work.
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby Leila2007 » Sat Jan 26, 2008 4:03 pm

Razz

In europe it is the same. Yes they have to some extent some help in place but it comes back to employers and most of them dont like the fact that you keep having time off for more kids.

They can frustrate you to a point you just quit. Plus a career at the top needs constant working , training and development within work place.


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i am taking about someone who wants to work and have a family not those stay at home mothers!
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby HELWAA » Sat Jan 26, 2008 4:07 pm

Leila

The day you have your own children you have to say goodbye to ur job till ur kids get older because they need you more.You cant be 2 pple.
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby Leila2007 » Sat Jan 26, 2008 4:10 pm

Helwaa
I have just realsed that today and it is a scary thing to do walle! I wanted to be a role model and achieve the unthikable. i.e get the best education, the best job, family but that is simply not possible.
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby Navy9 » Sat Jan 26, 2008 4:17 pm

[quote="Leila2007"]Helwaa
I have just realsed that today and it is a scary thing to do walle! I wanted to be a role model and achieve the unthikable. i.e get the best education, the best job, family but that is simply not possible.[/quote]


Its possible...
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Re: Men have more advantage

Postby Leila2007 » Sat Jan 26, 2008 4:18 pm

Navy9

How is it possible? Shade some light bal? I am about to give up lol!
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