The differences of man and woman in Selections.

[Mowhawk]

Shankaroon wrote;

"As for me, I don't want the "perfect" husband, but a one that makes me happy and agrees everything with me."

"...and agrees everything with" you? That is a tough task, am looking for only 50%. Otherwise, I may just buy a monkey pet.

[LaDy-Qac]

Maybe I'm in the minority but I would NEVER marry a sharmuut who used to sleep around. I'm sorry but I don' t see that as RAGANIIMO. Those type of guys in my eyes are lower than the lowest xayawaan in the animal kingdom . And to those of you that think your past will remain in the past =====>

I think it' s important to find someone who has the same outlook on the future as yourself.Sharing common goals and ambitions will only make things go smoother. Love( with love i mean the will to put up with each other no matter what) above all is important. I love to talk so he should be a good listener. He also needs to look hella good

[Lord Diplock]

[quote="Shankaroon_614"]Absame, what do you exactilly mean? and for mohowk, that is so very true because both men and women want the ideal husband and wife. As for me, I don't want the "perfect" husband, but a one that makes me happy and agrees everything with me. There is no perfect person on this planet earth, I believe.[/quote]

If you wait for the 'perfect' spouse, the chances of u finding one is quite remote. In my opinion, follow your heart and marry who u want to.

[Demure]

My only issue with Somaali guys who are sharmuuts (borrowing somebody's phrase) is the hypocrisy. They get to go around the block and yet when they are ready to settle down all of a sudden we're wadaads and only want unfermented goods. The double standards always pisses me off

Allow me to share two of the greatest proverbs regarding this issue;

"Men enjoy being thought of as hunters, but are generally too lazy to hunt. Women, on the other hand, love to hunt, but would rather nobody knew it"

"A man chases a woman untill she catches him"

[COOL-MAN]

demure,

from the somali perspective it is all down bikra/virgin. this department is where somali men have advantage over their counterparts. men can sleep around as much as they want and still claim to be virgins without anyone being able to disprove it. our xalimos on the hand have to keep their leggs shut untill somone knocks it legaly to prove the same thing.

they may decieve women but they cant decieve the one that knows what the bossoms conceal.

[LaDy-Qac]

Demure, it' s unfair isn't it?. When a lovely religious girl who has kept herself to herself ends up with a former male love.

Cool-man, i know of a girl who made her fiance swear on the holy quran that he wasn' t those type of guys. Guess what happened

[Cawar]

[quote="LaDy-Qac"]Demure, it' s unfair isn't it?. When a lovely religious girl who has kept herself to herself ends up with a former male love.

Cool-man, i know of a girl who made her fiance swear on the holy quran that he wasn' t those type of guys. Guess what happened [/quote]




I advise you to take the good with the bad in holly matrimony.

[Lord Diplock]

[quote="LaDy-Qac"]Demure, it' s unfair isn't it?. When a lovely religious girl who has kept herself to herself ends up with a former male love.

Cool-man, i know of a girl who made her fiance swear on the holy quran that he wasn' t those type of guys. Guess what happened [/quote]

He was not virgin and how was this known? he told the truth. Mr. Coolman has hit the nail on the head here, a man can always claim to be a virgin (whether he is or not), but a somali girl cannot in most situation. Quite unfair in my view.

[LaDy-Qac]

^ Actually she found out by other means but he denied it so she made him swear on the Holy quran and he couldn't. She said that he should step . Which was brilliant!.

[Shankaroon_614]

"...and agrees everything with" "you? That is a tough task, am looking for only 50%. Otherwise, I may just buy a monkey pet."

>>Mohowk,you may be right; lovers disagree on many things, but I want a one who excepts me for who I am .

"I think it' s important to find someone who has the same outlook on the future as yourself.Sharing common goals and ambitions will only make things go smoother. Love( with love i mean the will to put up with each other no matter what) above all is important. I love to talk so he should be a good listener. He also needs to look hella good."

>>Lady-Qac, you are absolutly right abaayo. You and the someone you are after will only make you happy if you both have the same goals for the future.

"My only issue with Somaali guys who are sharmuuts (borrowing somebody's phrase) is the hypocrisy. They get to go around the block and yet when they are ready to settle down all of a sudden we're wadaads and only want unfermented goods. The double standards always pisses me off

Allow me to share two of the greatest proverbs regarding this issue;

"Men enjoy being thought of as hunters, but are generally too lazy to hunt. Women, on the other hand, love to hunt, but would rather nobody knew it"

"A man chases a woman untill she catches him" "

>>Demure, I just can't seem to get that too. Oh you have no idea how much I hate when guys say that. In the face of Allah we are all the same no matter what kind of haram we've committed. And as for guys, don't never think that not being a virgin is a bad thing. It is so totaly good and know I where the guys are coming from; they think that ones they sleep with a halimo, they are man enough to sleep with their virgin wives.

Fact: Women want the same thing you know. We want a guy who is a virgin, which I don't think we will ever get, and so we can both discover everything under the sheets if you know what I mean.

[Shankaroon_614]

"...and agrees everything with" "you? That is a tough task, am looking for only 50%. Otherwise, I may just buy a monkey pet."

>>Mohowk,you may be right; lovers disagree on many things, but I want a one who excepts me for who I am .

"I think it' s important to find someone who has the same outlook on the future as yourself.Sharing common goals and ambitions will only make things go smoother. Love( with love i mean the will to put up with each other no matter what) above all is important. I love to talk so he should be a good listener. He also needs to look hella good."

>>Lady-Qac, you are absolutly right abaayo. You and the someone you are after will only make you happy if you both have the same goals for the future.

"My only issue with Somaali guys who are sharmuuts (borrowing somebody's phrase) is the hypocrisy. They get to go around the block and yet when they are ready to settle down all of a sudden we're wadaads and only want unfermented goods. The double standards always pisses me off

Allow me to share two of the greatest proverbs regarding this issue;

"Men enjoy being thought of as hunters, but are generally too lazy to hunt. Women, on the other hand, love to hunt, but would rather nobody knew it"

"A man chases a woman untill she catches him" "

>>Demure, I just can't seem to get that too. Oh you have no idea how much I hate when guys say that . In the face of Allah we are all the same no matter what kind of haram we've committed. And as for guys, don't never think that not being a virgin is a bad thing. It is so totaly good and know I where the guys are coming from; they think that ones they sleep with a halimo, they are man enough to sleep with their virgin wives.

Fact: Women want the same thing you know. We want a guy who is a virgin, which I don't think we will ever get, and so we can both discover everything under the sheets if you know what I mean.

[Demure]

I know, little weakling doormats! Women must have done something awful in past lives.

Btw I like your name

[Cawar]

I see alot of hypocrisy among women here.

Why do you care if the guy can perform as good as...well even better than a virgin and acts like a responsible man and takes care of you??? I know for a fact that Majority of women would prefer that.

Women on the other hand are sealed and if that seal is broken well(ever seen an advil or tynelenol box??lol), there better be a good reason for it....because its intended that the seal be broken by her husband....otherwise she would be in the category of 2nd hand(secondo mano)...but if you can live with that label and your man accpets what you have to offer then why not?

[Demure]

Cawar, The performance is not the issue here but the superficiality of some of your gender. I better not hear you pretending to be a wadaad again. If one goes by rumors and your own hints.

[Ugaas Diini]

"it' s unfair isn't it?. When a lovely religious girl who has kept herself to herself ends up with a former male love."

lol@ male love.