what does screwing you over entail? Infidelity, marrying a second wife, domestic violence, or something else?I agree with the blood test. Prenup, as long as there is a clause which allows me to totally screw him over if he screws me over.
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what does screwing you over entail? Infidelity, marrying a second wife, domestic violence, or something else?I agree with the blood test. Prenup, as long as there is a clause which allows me to totally screw him over if he screws me over.
Isn't that the wrong way round?BV i guess the one that makes you be there soul and body is the one you marry thats the "MR right" and when i find him inshallah all these feelings will go out of the window
Young, ani maa iga dumanee inta mushkilo madax iigaliso
Guurko waa wax qoran oo adigu badli karin, wax kastaana aduunkan wa qoraal.Ilaahy uun ba la isku xidha, Allah has his own plans for you.waa just uun iska tawakal and do everything you can to make ur marriage work.Lakin isn't marriage a decision. You declare on that day that you have decided to spend the rest of your life with this person. Therefore you should be prepared to do just that, no? Therefore all the hardwork involved in seeing the same face for God knows how many decades.
Guurko waa wax qoran oo adigu badli karin, wax kastaana aduunkan wa qoraal.Ilaahy uun ba la isku xidha, Allah has his own plans for you.waa just uun iska tawakal and do everything you can to make ur marriage work.Lakin isn't marriage a decision. You declare on that day that you have decided to spend the rest of your life with this person. Therefore you should be prepared to do just that, no? Therefore all the hardwork involved in seeing the same face for God knows how many decades.
Positive thinking and behaviour is also a good thing. If you are always prepared to get divorced and don't work against it then you are bound to end up divorced.
Those 3 plus being away from home for extended periods of time and any unreasonable behaviour on his part which forces me to ask for a divorce.what does screwing you over entail? Infidelity, marrying a second wife, domestic violence, or something else?I agree with the blood test. Prenup, as long as there is a clause which allows me to totally screw him over if he screws me over.
lol u don't expect much from anything of a beta quality. Expect too frequent crashes and reboots till all the bugs are removed and release candidate version is launched....marriage is a demo or beta, if it seems to be working you can improve it if not kill it.
Those 3 plus being away from home for extended periods of time and any unreasonable behaviour on his part which forces me to ask for a divorce.what does screwing you over entail? Infidelity, marrying a second wife, domestic violence, or something else?I agree with the blood test. Prenup, as long as there is a clause which allows me to totally screw him over if he screws me over.
The first three i can see where you're coming from. But it seems like the rest is just I wanna screw you over cause we're getting a divorceThose 3 plus being away from home for extended periods of time and any unreasonable behaviour on his part which forces me to ask for a divorce.what does screwing you over entail? Infidelity, marrying a second wife, domestic violence, or something else?I agree with the blood test. Prenup, as long as there is a clause which allows me to totally screw him over if he screws me over.
Marriage has it's ups and downs. All you can do is hope there's more of the former.I've had a change of heart. I used to think people who prepare themselves for divorce before marriage were nutters lakin I'm thinking they may have a point.
Do you believe in happily ever after or will you stash away some of your assets just in case things go south?
Ofcourse there is a bug, the question is can it be fixed if yes fine if no then? this beta will say many times "run time error" will you give up easily or continue fixing?lol u don't expect much from anything of a beta quality. Expect too frequent crashes and reboots till all the bugs are removed and release candidate version is launched....marriage is a demo or beta, if it seems to be working you can improve it if not kill it.
The moving away I am very serious about. I'd be damned if I become one of those women whose husbands live in another continent, part time or full time while they are left to raise the kids major WTF. I wouldn't screw him over. It would end with, if I get bored and decide to leave I don't get a penny. But if he behaves in a way that forces me to leave then he is screwed. I think that's fair.
The first three i can see where you're coming from. But it seems like the rest is just I wanna screw you over cause we're getting a divorce
So how would it have to end so that you don't screw him over?
Hell yes.BV,
what if he gets bored and decides to leave. Does that entail him getting screwed over?
Ameen to that.Hell yes.BV,
what if he gets bored and decides to leave. Does that entail him getting screwed over?
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