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I agree with the blood test. Prenup, as long as there is a clause which allows me to totally screw him over if he screws me over.

what does screwing you over entail? Infidelity, marrying a second wife, domestic violence, or something else?

BV i guess the one that makes you be there soul and body is the one you marry thats the "MR right" and when i find him inshallah all these feelings will go out of the window

Young, ani maa iga dumanee inta mushkilo madax iigaliso

Isn't that the wrong way round?

Am being wishful here


Young qatar aa tahay ninyo but anaa ka qatarsan, i need someone to blame at those times and adaa hada advice isiise

Lakin isn't marriage a decision. You declare on that day that you have decided to spend the rest of your life with this person. Therefore you should be prepared to do just that, no? Therefore all the hardwork involved in seeing the same face for God knows how many decades.

Guurko waa wax qoran oo adigu badli karin, wax kastaana aduunkan wa qoraal.Ilaahy uun ba la isku xidha, Allah has his own plans for you.waa just uun iska tawakal and do everything you can to make ur marriage work.

Positive thinking and behaviour is also a good thing. If you are always prepared to get divorced and don't work against it then you are bound to end up divorced.

Lakin isn't marriage a decision. You declare on that day that you have decided to spend the rest of your life with this person. Therefore you should be prepared to do just that, no? Therefore all the hardwork involved in seeing the same face for God knows how many decades.

Guurko waa wax qoran oo adigu badli karin, wax kastaana aduunkan wa qoraal.Ilaahy uun ba la isku xidha, Allah has his own plans for you.waa just uun iska tawakal and do everything you can to make ur marriage work.

Positive thinking and behaviour is also a good thing. If you are always prepared to get divorced and don't work against it then you are bound to end up divorced.

Yup, and a marriage with no trust is doomed to fail as well.

I agree with the blood test. Prenup, as long as there is a clause which allows me to totally screw him over if he screws me over.

what does screwing you over entail? Infidelity, marrying a second wife, domestic violence, or something else?

Those 3 plus being away from home for extended periods of time and any unreasonable behaviour on his part which forces me to ask for a divorce.

...marriage is a demo or beta, if it seems to be working you can improve it if not kill it.

lol u don't expect much from anything of a beta quality. Expect too frequent crashes and reboots till all the bugs are removed and release candidate version is launched.

I agree with the blood test. Prenup, as long as there is a clause which allows me to totally screw him over if he screws me over.

what does screwing you over entail? Infidelity, marrying a second wife, domestic violence, or something else?

Those 3 plus being away from home for extended periods of time and any unreasonable behaviour on his part which forces me to ask for a divorce.

I seriously hope no one signs that contract with that particular wording.

I agree with the blood test. Prenup, as long as there is a clause which allows me to totally screw him over if he screws me over.

what does screwing you over entail? Infidelity, marrying a second wife, domestic violence, or something else?

Those 3 plus being away from home for extended periods of time and any unreasonable behaviour on his part which forces me to ask for a divorce.

The first three i can see where you're coming from. But it seems like the rest is just I wanna screw you over cause we're getting a divorce

So how would it have to end so that you don't screw him over?

I've had a change of heart. I used to think people who prepare themselves for divorce before marriage were nutters lakin I'm thinking they may have a point.


Do you believe in happily ever after or will you stash away some of your assets just in case things go south?

Marriage has it's ups and downs. All you can do is hope there's more of the former.

...marriage is a demo or beta, if it seems to be working you can improve it if not kill it.

lol u don't expect much from anything of a beta quality. Expect too frequent crashes and reboots till all the bugs are removed and release candidate version is launched.

Ofcourse there is a bug, the question is can it be fixed if yes fine if no then? this beta will say many times "run time error" will you give up easily or continue fixing?

Alpha that is where the other contract comes in. It would have an asterick and then *unreasonable behaviour as stated in the Marriage Contract

The first three i can see where you're coming from. But it seems like the rest is just I wanna screw you over cause we're getting a divorce

So how would it have to end so that you don't screw him over?

The moving away I am very serious about. I'd be damned if I become one of those women whose husbands live in another continent, part time or full time while they are left to raise the kids major WTF. I wouldn't screw him over. It would end with, if I get bored and decide to leave I don't get a penny. But if he behaves in a way that forces me to leave then he is screwed. I think that's fair.

BV,

what if he gets bored and decides to leave. Does that entail him getting screwed over?

BV,

what if he gets bored and decides to leave. Does that entail him getting screwed over?

Hell yes.

BV,

what if he gets bored and decides to leave. Does that entail him getting screwed over?

Hell yes.

Ameen to that.

Major screwed over.


Uh oh. Are you guys saying that the woman should pay for getting bored?

Unfortunately the system favours women, when it comes to marriage. Her skipping out due to boredom wouldn't result in much.
Unless she ran off with some dude. Perhaps.