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So you dont think 1 month is unreasonable if it feels right? and how about waiting 6,7 years to get married? I think thats ridiculous. What are your upper limits that make you go "Only Xmonths? You're crazy!" or.. "You've been talking for Xyears, war inaa lillah, just is guursada ama is dhaafa."dude its you to decide.
You can wait for 10 yrs if you want.
IKR lol, fobsite, why are you speaking korean?LOOL@ "ila tali walaal"
I use to think 2 years plus lakiin as i get older i realise qofaa bari kubaroweyse bil kuma baratid.
You can always divorce. why do people make it seem like marriage is an irreversible contract?
Say you meet someone but you are not ready for marriage in another 5 years maxa sameynee?I reckon anything longer then 6-8 months *a year maxx* is ridiculous.. How long does one need to get to know someone..
So six months the original date of you ever meeting the guy is long enough to nikax/guur/ect? I think its not just a 'need to know' thing, but also a comfortability thing, like how long will it take for you to get comfortable with them being in your life before you take the next step.I reckon anything longer then 6-8 months *a year maxx* is ridiculous.. How long does one need to get to know someone..
So you think you should wait until your legs start opening by themselves like somebody taped polar magnets to your thighs? what if you can both restrain yourself indefinitely, what then?It depends. In some relationships, dating a long time is not an issue. However, the problem arises when one of the two wants some action and the other plays abstinence card and says let's wait till we get married.
Already happened and I kept it moving.. If its meant to be it'll be.Say you meet someone but you are not ready for marriage in another 5 years maxa sameynee?I reckon anything longer then 6-8 months *a year maxx* is ridiculous.. How long does one need to get to know someone..
Yeah why not..So six months the original date of you ever meeting the guy is long enough to nikax/guur/ect? I think its not just a 'need to know' thing, but also a comfortability thing, like how long will it take for you to get comfortable with them being in your life before you take the next step.
Already happened and I kept it moving.. If its meant to be it'll be.Say you meet someone but you are not ready for marriage in another 5 years maxa sameynee?I reckon anything longer then 6-8 months *a year maxx* is ridiculous.. How long does one need to get to know someone..
Yeah why not..So six months the original date of you ever meeting the guy is long enough to nikax/guur/ect? I think its not just a 'need to know' thing, but also a comfortability thing, like how long will it take for you to get comfortable with them being in your life before you take the next step.
The thing with me is I lose interest easily.. Anything longer then a year is just crazy.
If I can see a future with the lad and I am comfortable around him why wait..
omg two months? wow mashaAllah, how high is their imaan subhanaAllah.That's a tricky question.. I guess it depends on the couple and how fast they are moving.
I know one lass who only knew her man for less then 2 months before they got hitched.. But they both knew they were interested in marriage from the get-go.
For me personally a month is just too soon..
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