@skywalker - Damn! I can't imagine ever holding a grudge that spans that long. It's more messed up when it's family feuds, I agree.
@ElfRuler - It struck me as a case of iska waalid more than anything. Never really looked at it as you pointed out.
Either way, my conscience is clear.
@AoC - Damned if you do, damned if you don't typa deal!