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Ok you said you going to try to solve our problem. I want some advise brother, I am in love with a girl we agreed we going to marry each other. Her dad died when she was 4 years old only her mother raised her. The girl’s dad was my fathers friend we own a clothing store. Accidentally one day the girl in my dream and her mother want to buy some clothing materials from my dad store he meet them over there, my dad made a couple home visit to them the girl and her mother they didn’t knew it was my dad store and he is even my dad. One day my dad wants to girl mom and requested if he can marry her daughter. The girl’s mother said she will talk to her daughter. The girl refused to marry my father her mother asked her why and she told him that she is in love with me. The girl mother talked to my dad and told him that she refused to marry him because she loves a guy called (My name of course)... my dad said who, he got confused and asked the girl if attend agriculture college and I am second year and where I life the address then my dad got convinced it was me. When he came home that night he was sad he told my mother that he will move out to his own place he stayed there a couple of months. My mother will go to him every day and ask him what happen what is wrong with him then finally he told her what has been bothering him. Now I don’t know what to do my dad said I can’t marry that girl because he can’t face any more because my dad wants to marry her and he thinks I should forget about her. Now my mom and my dad are pressuring me to marry aunt daughter. I know my aunt daughter she loves very much , I don’t know if I sacrifices my love for my family or if I should leave my family and go with my lover. What is your advice bro.?

[quote="Dabacsan"]Ok you said you going to try to solve our problem. I want some advise brother, I am in love with a girl we agreed we going to marry each other. Her dad died when she was 4 years old only her mother raised her. The girl’s dad was my fathers friend we own a clothing store. Accidentally one day the girl in my dream and her mother want to buy some clothing materials from my dad store he meet them over there, my dad made a couple home visit to them the girl and her mother they didn’t knew it was my dad store and he is even my dad. One day my dad wants to girl mom and requested if he can marry her daughter. The girl’s mother said she will talk to her daughter. The girl refused to marry my father her mother asked her why and she told him that she is in love with me. The girl mother talked to my dad and told him that she refused to marry him because she loves a guy called (My name of course)... my dad said who, he got confused and asked the girl if attend agriculture college and I am second year and where I life the address then my dad got convinced it was me. When he came home that night he was sad he told my mother that he will move out to his own place he stayed there a couple of months. My mother will go to him every day and ask him what happen what is wrong with him then finally he told her what has been bothering him. Now I don’t know what to do my dad said I can’t marry that girl because he can’t face any more because my dad wants to marry her and he thinks I should forget about her. Now my mom and my dad are pressuring me to marry aunt daughter. I know my aunt daughter she loves very much , I don’t know if I sacrifices my love for my family or if I should leave my family and go with my lover. What is your advice bro.?[/quote]Sorry mate you are othe onlyone who canmake this decsion wether it will be right for you or not no one else would ever make the problem to solved. good luck

first thing first

your dad is a pimp

no jokes abti i know how you feel but if your really inlove with this chick and she is willing to get marries with you talk to your aabe tell him everything , that you guys made plans before he came into the picture and tell him she is the one for you ,

if the girl accepts that from her famili's side then its all sorted .
but your gacaliso has to veto if your dad ignores your issues over this . if the girl refuses to get married with him , she will be all yours bro.

forget about your father wanting to move out , let me do his own thing ,
we live in a selfish society sxb, sad but true ..

anyway put YOU (abdii) first .
dont let the fact that he is your father take advantage of the situation .

GOOD LUCK BRO

Bissmellah


that is so selfish man you father wants to marry her but if he cant have her nor should u .. What a joke..

Kid ============> get over it and marry the girl she stood by you when she told who she wanted if you fear Allah get married to this girl do not get married with one that you don't care about that in it self is a crime would u marry a women who dosent care for u ?


how hard is that tell your paps to get over it, if he cant and you cant then stop being sad and say Qadr Allah w mansha facal waa qadarki Alle and he dose indeed what he wishes !


and say Allaxamdulillah and ask Allah inu ku siiyo tu kheyr badan !

rejection sukcs that is why your old man is full of hate sobxan Allah! he is a big man he will get over it sooner or later


Fe Aman Ellah

lisen your dad had his chances, he played the field and got married to who he wanted to get married to in his prime... and had children


the noble thing for ur dad to do is to step out of the way
and let u do wat u have to do...



the noble thing 4 u to do is to recognise that ur dad is being selfish
so that u can avoid making a life tym mistake


hope i was hopeful

..U MEAN HELP-FULL....RITE...

masaakiin. what in the hell?!

is this a joke. how in the heck does all this happen. laa xowla.