What are the differences between settling down with a western somali girl who favors English vs a traditional somali girl.
Ive recently moved to Europe and met a beautiful Somali girl who I get along with just fine, except she doesnt speak much English.
My somali is good enough that we have solid communication, and since Im here a while I wouldnt mind learning a bit of the scandinavian dialects.
If we were to get married she would have to learn English because she knows I ultimately have to travel back to an English speaking country, she says no big deal
I just want to know if the advantages of marrying someone like her is worth that one language aspect as opposed to marrying a more westernised English speaking Somali girl
I think someone like her is a very good match for me as Im very much more comfortable with being the more masculine, dominant, provider role and she is happy to play her role with house affairs; although she does work at a hospital as well. She likes me alot and I can see her showing alot of affection as well.
My Somali friends told me theyre more frigid but I dont believe that at all. Plus, as a man if you dont know how to turn on a woman that does not mean she is frigid. I think most of those guys just lack game.
On top of that, I would be ridiculed by western somali guys and girls I know for marrying a "freshie." Why does this bother me??
Are the more westernised, English speaking somali girls as good a match as the more traditional ones? I dont want this to backfire if there are blind spots I cant see right now. I want some advice from older heads here who've seen both types of somali girls.
Sorry for the long post, and I had to post here as relationships advice forum has been dead for a while now
Thanks in advance