Salaan sister
I two have this problem but my one is more about tribe as always, i dont know why we put our self in this situation.
but anyway, i just wantd to say to you, you need to pray sis and ask allah to guide u, do duco sister all the time specially fajr and asra, morning prayer is great.
Sis ask you self this are you happy the why u and ur man a r right now, dont u want everythin between u and him to be halal.
I think u want him to propose to u or somthin lolz, remember Khadija (RA) asked our phrophet (SWS) for marriage first. Nways askd you man questions and tell him how u change religiously and u wish him to do the same specaily salat. If you both pray than you cant go wrong cos prayer will help you get close to allah and than your answered will be answered.
Tell him seeing him is making u feel uncomfortiable coz he is NOT UR MAN islamicly. Ps how do u knw if he dont want to marry u, dont u knw guys r slow and they just enjoy what ever thy have without thinkin right.
ask him about the future insha allah and what his plan is, does this include u, if it does thn i'm sure he wnat to marry u rite. sister dont take long coz everytime u see, chat to him there is a sin involve.
sister there is a salat called Salat-l-Istikhara. A "prayer for guidance" which is often used to help in important decision-making.
Your pray only two rakca and you do this for a week but u might get a sign from allah (subxan watacal) within a day or two. this sign will help you on whether this is the guy allah chose for you. You must pray at the same time, best time is btw duhur and asar.
the site below is got the duco u need to read after the salat.
http://islam.about.com/blistikhara.htmI hope this helps and insha allah all the best. my bad with my grammer i have no time to correct it or the brain lolz,
Allah knows best and i pray allah guide us all.
