Is it permissible?

[Highland]

Is it Islamically haaraam/forbidden for your future wife to accompany a married man into an open marketplace/mall just to help him buy something?

The girl is honest and chaste and she has a great sense of humour, but she developed this behavioral pattern of been so openminded and believing when some of her men friends ask her for help.

What do you think?

[Warsan_Star_Muslimah]

Asalaamu alikum

The rule is that if his not your mahram then you're not allowed to be with him, alone. I don't think she should have men friends to be honest, and neither should he have female friends that he goes around with.

Personally, I think men and female friendship is bad enough as it is, but it becomes even worse once your in a relationship and you carry on with these 'friendships' with the opposite sex and go around places with them. Because of this, it might cast doubt and mistrust in the relationship that is being built.

Why doesn't the man ask his sisters, mise aunt anyone that is mahram to go with him?

Salaam

[LaQaNyO]

Walaal I am not sure about whether it is forbidden or what not..

But what I do know is that… human beings are created so… that they can be easily led to suspicion about anything and everything. Now if a married sister is seen walking down the streets with a brother that is not her mahram it does not look appropriate and both of them become prone to suspicion that eventually lead to rumours….And rumours could potentially destroy relationships.

I can recall reading a hadeeth about the prophet pbuh… And if I can remember right it was;
The prophet pbuh had gone to the mosque to pray early morning fajr… he pbuh had forgotten to put oil on his head and his wife Aisha ra came to give him some oil… He pbuh was stood somewhere slightly away from the entrance… As more people walked up to the mosque and saw the prophet pbuh with ‘a woman’ (in their eyes- a woman)… they stood still and turned away acted as if they saw nothing. When the prophet pbuh saw them…He pbuh said; oh you can come through it is only my wife!
So, if people could easily become suspicious of the best of mankind ever brought to life- Prophet Mohamed pbuh… then walaal you do the math!

Lots of people say… I don’t care what so and so say… allah swt knows best, yes allah swt knows best but rumours escalate from suspicion and they can eventually wreck lives as well… distance yourself from it as much as you can.

PS: the hadeeth... I just wrote from the top of my head… so Allahu yaclam and astaqfurallah if I made a mistake it is how I can recall it best.

[Somali_soulja24]

Salaam

Walaal under no circumstances is a married man or not allowed 2 walk some1 of the opposite sex alone who he is not muxrim of

same goes 4 a woman, under no circumstance is she whether married or not allowed 2 walk with some1 of the opp sex alone who is not her muxrim

Xayaaka Allah

[Highland]

It's been long time. Thanks for the feedback my Somali sisters.
I share with your perspectives.