suga_n_spice wrote:who you want to marry, or end up marrying?!
It's amazing, but I think your environment has a huge influence on the type of person you end up marrying!!
Living in a predominantely Somali state, I can't imagine marrying a non-Somali. In fact, I don't even make it an option for me to be with other ethnicities![]()
but whenever my cousins from Virginia come to visit, all they talk about are whites, arabs, indians, pakistani's etc. none of them want to marry a Somali.......and if they do it's just an option and not a must for them.
and calaf of course
For you, its not an option to marry a non-somali.
For some its their life duty
For most, its indicative to who they fall in love with.
I dont think you should bestow your feelings about marring your own race to other people who may or may not feel the same way. Thats just wrong.

