What is the fastest way to get over someone?

[HELWAA]

[quote="SahanGalbeed"]Faduul maxaa u taqaana Helwaa??
Haddaan ka joogi laha waxani ma dhacayn baad ka wadaa miyaa?
Waxaasi wax isoo mara ma'aha !! LOL.
Cid Alle iyo wax aan laga maarmi karin addunkani maba jirto !!
Once you know that , "confident" baad meel walba ku galaysa , haddi wixii aad ka sugaysa na aad ka waydo , dee waad iska ga baxaysa .[/quote]


waryee anigo analyze kuuma dirsan...i just asked advice yaa akhi!!!

[SahanGalbeed]

Bal imisa dumar ah oo ciyaal leh baa maanta addunkaan ubadkoodi caano ay siyaan u la'.
"Compartmentalizing & putting it back 2 perspective " baa loo roga sheekada .

Aniga marka "jail"-ka la igu rido , halkaan "way..way. alla maxaa igu watay " ka odhan laha , " aar imisaa isla daqiiqaddan ku go'aya addunka" baan isku maaweliyaa " wax kastaba wa iska dhamaanayaa"
Anigaa isku "cheerleader" ah .LOL

[HELWAA]

[quote="abdi.ismail"]HELWAA, do you mean marriage or do you date? If the latter, then I thought you were a sheekhad. Islam Forbids Pre-marital relations with a partner.[/quote]



stick to the topic.......

[HELWAA]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Helwaa,

Women do it too.

I met 2 women who were on the rebound after breaking up with their longterm boyfriends.

[/quote]


loooool and they told u.Is there other ways then that.

[HELWAA]

[quote="Emperor_kuzco"]party.......................till you drop[/quote]


I dont party.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

[quote="HELWAA"][quote="abdi.ismail"]HELWAA, do you mean marriage or do you date? If the latter, then I thought you were a sheekhad. Islam Forbids Pre-marital relations with a partner.[/quote]



stick to the topic.......[/quote]

Lol. OOOOOOOOOOOkaaaay (wink). Then I suggest you think of every little negative about him and make it seem bigger. Also getting back in the game is also helpful, keeps you distracted from thinking of him.

[SahanGalbeed]

War dadkii ba wax indho la' oo gawaadhi wata ayay noqdeen
"Ha na analyze garayn" maxay ka dhigantahay ?
Halkaad ka timid iyo halkaad ku socoto haddaad kala garan waydo , sow ma indho li'id??! Maxa ku saaray gaadhiga markaa? LOL

[HELWAA]

waryaa Ina baxar......nacnacda mesha kala tag.

[MJ-Pride]

Change your phone number, make new special person, and get busy with work and school. Too much time in your hand helps you gather the memories

[SahanGalbeed]

Dee marna ha la ii la hadlo , marna iga baydha maxay ka dhigantahay . lol
Ma rabtaa wax kula taliya HAA iyo MAYA??

[ms.nalia]

Throw all his shit away, burn it if you have to....delete all emails, txt msgs, pic msgs etc.

Find all the things you hate about him.....and say to yourself....WTF was I doing with that...

And date some other eye candy who doesnt mind being a boytoy.....

works everytime!

[HELWAA]

[quote="MJ-Pride"]Change your phone number, make new special person, and get busy with work and school. Too much time in your hand helps you gather the memories[/quote]



You are right! being busy is the best way....less time to think or remember...




ms naila

Thanx sis.....getting rid off everything that remind me of him is good....all the emails, txt massages etc etc

[Mohamed4life]

There really isnt a FAST way. But there are ways that are more beneficial than others.

First, happy hands = a happy mind. AKA stay busy! If your consantly busy doing something, you wont have as much time to think about him, and maybe, with all the activity, you might find a new friend.

Second, make sure that the break off is a clean one. What I mean is, there should be nothing of his around you that will remind you of him. No pictures, phone numbers, clothing items, etc.

Third, make sure he understands that it is over. Tell him however you need to, to make things clear.

Forth, let him go...with in yourself. You can not HALF do this. If you want to break it off, dont 2nd guess yourself. You need to have confidence in your actions, and you need to believe that what you are doing is for the best.

Finally, enjoy yourself. After loosing something that had a large impact on your life for so long, you need to fill it with things that are fun for you. Treat yourself! Take yourself out, devote a day to the spa, or go to a bar/club with some girlfriends. Stay positive and have fun.

Good luck!

[biko]

Salat, would have been my answer but since this is not the same helwaa...i would have to say...

counseling.

[HELWAA]

[quote="Mohamed4life"]There really isnt a FAST way. But there are ways that are more beneficial than others.

First, happy hands = a happy mind. AKA stay busy! If your consantly busy doing something, you wont have as much time to think about him, and maybe, with all the activity, you might find a new friend.

Second, make sure that the break off is a clean one. What I mean is, there should be nothing of his around you that will remind you of him. No pictures, phone numbers, clothing items, etc.

Third, make sure he understands that it is over. Tell him however you need to, to make things clear.

Forth, let him go...with in yourself. You can not HALF do this. If you want to break it off, dont 2nd guess yourself. You need to have confidence in your actions, and you need to believe that what you are doing is for the best.

Finally, enjoy yourself. After loosing something that had a large impact on your life for so long, you need to fill it with things that are fun for you. Treat yourself! Take yourself out, devote a day to the spa, or go to a bar/club with some girlfriends. Stay positive and have fun.

Good luck![/quote]



Moahamed

Before i asked the Q to the somalinet members i wanted to find out the answer and guess what googled AND THE FIRST THING that comes up was yahoo answers...AND YOUR REPLY WAS THERE which means you are a COPYCAT.DONT take other pples post yaa akhi.