Can a man love/care for a woman and hate her people?

[ManD333q]

Marq, as they say i af-gibberish "man ligger som man har redt"

ps, don't even try to google translate that

[zulaika]

Reading through all the replies, I get the sense that when trouble arises between couples of different backgrounds, it is the women who tend to think along the lines of "sleeping with the enemy"...where as a man can antagonize the people his woman hails from, not taking into account her connections to these people. Whether or not a man will do this subconsciously or out of arrogance, it appears he assures himself with a sense of blind trust in his woman...assuming she'll never behave in like manner. So when and if a woman in such relationship reacts to counter her husbands disdain towards her people, the result is not always tit for tat...she will start with him first, unleashing all her fury on him..and whatever arsenal left thereafter, she will attempt to go after folks on his side ..."hell has no furry like a woman scorn"

[eliteSomali]

No. Sleeping with a woman doesn't mean you love her. Most men would sleep with a woman they've just met. The case of the slave owners sleeping with their slaves further proves this. They slept with their slaves but it wasn't out of love but rather because they viewed them as sex objects. I don't think you can genuinely love a woman and hate the people she comes from.

[SultanOrder]

Women play the vital role of bridging the gap between the love and hate, and through their children hopefully prevent the next generation from taking up this hate. This is why women are exchanged during peace negotiations. Also, women lower men's testosterone, essentially making them less quick to action.

As for can men love/care for a woman and hate her people, I hope not. A women will always be part of her people, she doesn't just join your people, and to hate her people is to hate a part of her. Of course, if you do "love" her and hate her people, then you love part of her, like what she can do for you.

For the old billionaire, he was just weak. Old age does that to men, and the more they know their time is running out the weaker they get. They just want to enjoy whats left, and if a young women happens to be a people you despise, you just don't care as long as you are just enjoying yourself.

[obstacle24]

also, can person love their mother and hate her people, i heard from somalis all the time.

This is the worse case ever, how anyone can hate their abti, ayeeyo, awoowe is beyond me. They must not really love their mother.

[AgentOfChaos]

The answer is no, but only if he is not a hypocrite.

[knowthyself]

What could be more natural than screwing the womenfolk of the enemy? I have gone for a muff dive on a legion of Ethiopians.

Trading women was an instrument of diplomacy in bygone times. Peace treaties were concluded by marrying off your sister to the enemy's royal family as an insurance against future hostilities. It's hard to make war on someone whose sister gives you free blowjobs every night.

Even Islamophobes do it. V S Naipaul's wife is a Pakistani.

[skywalker25]

I think in its purist form it's about sex. From a mans point of view when his giving it good to his women a small part of him will feel his giving it her tribe aswell. The rest is just headache that comes with situation..

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

I think in its purist form it's about sex. From a mans point of view when his giving it good to his women a small part of him will feel his giving it her tribe aswell. The rest is just headache that comes with situation..

[AbkoowDhiblaawe]

Me personally, no. Imagine hating on your kids abtiyaal, thats messed up walahi.

[GeoSeven]

Yeah, plenty of men can and will. There's certainly no shortage of irrational fools, particularly when qabiil is concerned

[StormShadow]

I'm full blooded from both sides so I can't answer the question.