What is the acceptable age difference?

[Sophisticate]

Get yourself a young one if possible lads, if you're 25 aim for the 19-23 bracket

I am not a relationship person (I prefer solitude) so I don't know if marriage is in the cards for me, it's in God's hands. If were talking hypothetical scenarios I have a 5 year cut off (older). There is probably very little a younger man could do for me. The reason I avoided early marriage is to not plunge into unnecessary hardship i.e. poverty or dependence.

Nonsense get yourself a good brother love

I'm not even putting on a front. I'm a solo kind of bird. I don't see a relationship as necessary, more like a luxury, provided he measures up. I have always been emotionally self-reliant. So I don't derive significant value from being an ensemble. This might be cumbersome if an individual is trying to get to know me. I value my family and friends more, what can I say.

[Sophisticate]

Looooool.Waar dumarku waa caynkaas ninyahow. Men are divided into two groups for them. One group for sex and one group for provisioning (marriage). They'd love to marry the first group, which is the group they find hot, but those type of men don't commit easily. That's why women have sex with these badboys/hot guys throughout their teens and twenties and then settle with the miskeen guy with money, who they see as nothing more than an atm, when they're in their late twenties/early thirties. They have a dualistic sexual-mating strategy. It's just culture (social shame) and religion that restrains them from following their reptilian hind-brains. But now with the death of both culture and religion in the West, the fetters of social control have been cast off and the age of female empowerment has been ushered in. That's why the whore propositioning you on her wedding day didn't surprise me in the least. Women haven't changed, but the times have. It's a scary world out there sxb.

Dude I just saw this and felt the need to reply.

Bad boy = loser with no prospects. Any normal female would stay clear of them or play mind games with them but would never give them buscud or party favours (nothing). These dudes already have enough amalgam fillings to last them a lifetime, so why contribute. There is nothing but despair that will come from a cad, which probably has latent aabo issues. Similarly, a good miskeen dude is still looking for buscud but in a halaal manner. He's a lot more respectable. The only problem is he gives you a short time frame to get to know him before you marry him. Otherwise, you're just wasting his time. It's just easier for a good and decent Xalimo to stay single. It's difficult enough to get these kneegrows to agree with a laundry list of terms. Also, let's not pretend that you can't find information on a girl/guy you are talking too. Nothing in this world is entirely secret, so there will always be a trail of crumbs from their past left over. Some folks aren't cunning enough to do their homework, or perhaps they don't really care.

[TheMightyNomad]

Your ovaries have a life span. Making a baby requires a healthy egg, but eggs become more scarce as you age. You're born with about a million eggs, but most of them never mature. By the time you reach puberty, you're down to half your original supply, and the number continues to fall each year. And not every egg that survives can make a baby. Even in your prime, about half of all eggs have chromosomal abnormalities, and the proportion of eggs with genetic problems increases as you age, explains Dr. David Adamson, president of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine. Eventually, you simply run out of viable eggs. "As of today, we have no way of changing that," he says. "It's the natural course of human life."

Fertility peaks in your 20s. Most women hit their fertile peak between the ages of 23 and 31, though the rate at which women conceive begins to dip slightly in their late 20s. Around age 31, fertility starts to drop more quickly — by about 3 percent per year — until you hit 35 or so. From there, the decline accelerates. "The average 39-year-old woman has half the fertility she had at 31, and between 39 and 42, the chances of conceiving drop by half again," says Adamson. Approximately one in four women age 35 or older have trouble getting pregnant.

http://www.m.webmd.com/baby/features/fertility-101

See like I said!! It's healthy and beneficial to marry young!

[MujahidAishah]

For men 10 years

For women 5 years + no - I'm not babysitting out here

The 30 -40 year old males is my target audience but finding one with a full head of hair is tough

I amnt even 30 yet

This is what I have to put up with

[grandpakhalif]

I prefer close age range. wifey is 20 and im 22

[Jugjugwacwac]

Dude I just saw this and felt the need to reply.

Bad boy = loser with no prospects. Any normal female would stay clear of them or play mind games with them but would never give them buscud or party favours (nothing). These dudes already have enough amalgam fillings to last them a lifetime, so why contribute. There is nothing but despair that will come from a cad, which probably has latent aabo issues. Similarly, a good miskeen dude is still looking for buscud but in a halaal manner. He's a lot more respectable. The only problem is he gives you a short time frame to get to know him before you marry him. Otherwise, you're just wasting his time. It's just easier for a good and decent Xalimo to stay single. It's difficult enough to get these kneegrows to agree with a laundry list of terms. Also, let's not pretend that you can't find information on a girl/guy you are talking too. Nothing in this world is entirely secret, so there will always be a trail of crumbs from their past left over. Some folks aren't cunning enough to do their homework, or perhaps they don't really care.

Soph, we've already established that you're not like most girls. Your father is a lucky man, as he can sleep blissfully at night. Trust me though, the reality is much different than what you think is normal, or even what I thought was normal until recently.

[Sophisticate]

Dude I just saw this and felt the need to reply.

Bad boy = loser with no prospects. Any normal female would stay clear of them or play mind games with them but would never give them buscud or party favours (nothing). These dudes already have enough amalgam fillings to last them a lifetime, so why contribute. There is nothing but despair that will come from a cad, which probably has latent aabo issues. Similarly, a good miskeen dude is still looking for buscud but in a halaal manner. He's a lot more respectable. The only problem is he gives you a short time frame to get to know him before you marry him. Otherwise, you're just wasting his time. It's just easier for a good and decent Xalimo to stay single. It's difficult enough to get these kneegrows to agree with a laundry list of terms. Also, let's not pretend that you can't find information on a girl/guy you are talking too. Nothing in this world is entirely secret, so there will always be a trail of crumbs from their past left over. Some folks aren't cunning enough to do their homework, or perhaps they don't really care.

Soph, we've already established that you're not like most girls. Your father is a lucky man, as he can sleep blissfully at night. Trust me though, the reality is much different than what you think is normal, or even what I thought was normal until recently.

Thank you. So tell us what the new normal is in 2015? I would like to know.

[QuantumSatis]

Sophi may be the good girl type but she would like to be what she isn't. Her Avatar pic says it all Good(subjectively defined) is boring.

[Sophisticate]

Sophi may be the good girl type but she would like to be what she isn't. Her Avatar pic says it all Good(subjectively defined) is boring.

You got all that from an avatar? What else did you elucidate from it?

[Xisab]

Thank you. So tell us what the new normal is in 2015? I would like to know.

Don't know where you're from, but in the GTA I see Xalimos marrying current gangbangers or "reformed" gangbangers, and miskin guys for the most part marrying non-Somalis. Most of these gangbangers typically have nothing going for them in terms of career or disposable income, and right after the marriage both will be on some form of social assistance. I guess the appeal of the "bad boy" is just too great for most of them too resist. IMO, you're certainly some kind of anomaly based on my anecdotal observations of the social dynamics in my local Somali community.

[QuantumSatis]

Sophi may be the good girl type but she would like to be what she isn't. Her Avatar pic says it all Good(subjectively defined) is boring.

You got all that from an avatar? What else did you elucidate from it?

That you like(and imagine) to be handcuffed and Strangled during intimacy. If a woman sent me a picture of hers with that pose(side exposure of the breast, helloo), It would speak volumes to me


You are so bad Sophi(the true version of you).

[Sophisticate]

Thank you. So tell us what the new normal is in 2015? I would like to know.

Don't know where you're from, but in the GTA I see Xalimos marrying current gangbangers or "reformed" gangbangers, and miskin guys for the most part marrying non-Somalis. Most of these gangbangers typically have nothing going for them in terms of career or disposable income, and right after the marriage both will be on some form of social assistance. I guess the appeal of the "bad boy" is just too great for most of them too resist. IMO, you're certainly some kind of anomaly based on my anecdotal observations of the social dynamics in my local Somali community.

Well, I am not acquainted with any girls who married reformed gang bangers. In fact, I don know any ex-cons. Most of my associates have higher aspirations.

[Sophisticate]

Sophi may be the good girl type but she would like to be what she isn't. Her Avatar pic says it all Good(subjectively defined) is boring.

You got all that from an avatar? What else did you elucidate from it?

That you like(and imagine) to be handcuffed and Strangled during intimacy. If a woman sent me a picture of hers with that pose(side exposure of the breast, helloo), It would speak volumes to me


You are so bad Sophi(the true version of you).

You described S&M. The lady is not in a bed it's a hammock, there are no handcuffs, and she wearing a venetian styled dress, similar to a guntino. I thought it was elegant and not some burlesque show at the Moulin Rouge. This says more about you son, and your libidinous thoughts.

[QuantumSatis]

Sophi, I googled to find out what the abbreviation S&M stands for. I knew it! You know more than you let on. Besides, classic/elegant don't mean free of naughtiness. Guntiino is nothing short of an invitation for some serious fun. Waa garxirka ka fur oo keliya(if you understand Somali btw) and nothing is left, all drop to the floor. I gave the interpretation of the picture you have on, and possible reasons you like it(not confining things to the bored classy mantra most aren't interested in would be forthcoming on your part). Be yourself little girl

It is Okay to be human with good and fun interests. You can be classy too that way,

[Susu000]

Sophi, I googled to find out what the abbreviation S&M stands for. I knew it! You know more than you let on. Besides, classic/elegant don't mean free of naughtiness. Guntiino is nothing short of an invitation for some serious fun. Waa garxirka ka fur oo keliya(if you understand Somali btw) and nothing is left, all drop to the floor. I gave the interpretation of the picture you have on, and possible reasons you like it(not confining things to the bored classy mantra most aren't interested in would be forthcoming on your part). Be yourself little girl

It is Okay to be human with good and fun interests. You can be classy too that way,

Bullseye!