Should a Guy and a Girl be friends?

[shidow1]

Are you telling me it never happens......

[Basra-]

Shidow


No, i am merely saying-- u can never know what happened. Stop talking with certainty, when u have a girl visiting college boy, and they share a bed-- they r not exactly---playing a harmless kindergarten game of....-- 'U show me yours and i will show u mine' ---NO, one will assume they are doing something more sinister and nasty disgusting, that involves exchange of fluids.




YUCKKKKKK! !

[shidow1]

What will you do if a male friend visits you and you have only one bed....

[Basra-]

Shidow



If i had a male friend visiting me---(first of all that will never happen, coz i will stop before he even thinks of visiting lol)

But say, he surprised me and showed up at my door step in my college dorm, and i only have one bed. Well, i have no other option do I??


I will lay a blanket on the floor for him with new clean bed sheets and hope the rats dont bite him, u know where.

[shidow1]

What happens if he says....his shoulder hurts....and that he will promise nothing will happen....

[Basra-]

Shidow


Fine, if his shoulders hurt-- well i am not a mean person. I will let him sleep on my bed, but provided he gives me his master credit card so i may go and sleep in hilton hotel--- executive suit room thank you.

[Naaima]

[quote="Luq_Ganane"]No, absolutely not. If a guy's befriending a girl its because we want something from them, and if a girls befriending a guy its because she wants him. Plain and simple. Whether you call it "just friends" in English or "walaaltimo" in Somali its still the same shid. Both scemes used by both genders to do whatever under these two names.


I've turn 'hang out' invitations down because if I'm not interested in the girl I have no reason to talk to her. I'm not gonna waste my time or hers, and it should be vice versa [/quote]

i totally i mean TOTALLY TOTALLY 110% disagree, i don't understand why males and females can not be within ten feet of each other without people spekulating that something is going on horta subhana alle heen alle mayaahay . it's a very myopic and imature attitude..most of my best best friends are guys!!

[shidow1]

What happens if he says.....that is not necessary......we will go to the Hilton hotel and get a king size bed.....you sleep on one end..and me on the other end.....and the guy goes down on his knees and begs....

[Ya Majerteen Ah]

Naaima, you tell these guys!! Kulahaa, a dude and a chick can't be friends without something happening between them. WTF! I honestly don't have any feelings for any of my male friends( and no, they're not ugly..or gay). We're friends, and that's all.

[FAH1223]

don't see anything wrong with it

niccaz need to get their minds out of the gutter and lay down that false pride

just cause you're friends with a girl don't mean you will be getting your nails done

THOUGH..I do see what Luq is implying. I hated these fags in high school who hung out with the girls and their fashion shows and "gatherings with the Lesbian girls"

[xoogSADE14]

war anagaa wax aragnay!

midkan yaree atlanta ka niikiya mar dhowna waxuu bilaabi doonaa thread ah "if i came out the closet will my parents still love me?".

Alla abaabkaagu xumaa.

[SummerRain]

Absolutely NOT, males catch feelings too easily. 8)

[Aliyah99]

I think a girl can have a genuine friendship with a guy, but a guy always has other motives. Guys say lets be friends when they mean, you said no but I'm a persistant little fcker

[Steeler [Crawler2]]

I can't speak for everyone, but I have lots of women friends. I was the witness at the wedding of one of them, and we remain very good friends (I am also friends now with her husband). One of my best friends is a woman.

I think it would be more difficult to be friends with women you were attracted to. But if neither of you have romantic inclinations, it's actually pretty easy.

[The_Emperior5]

sure i used to know this girl we where friends in highschool we used chat everthing
we where friends and last month she said she doesent wanne talk to me no more

she has some one now


i said 3 years waxba kamaan rabbin maxad uu moodii ilan imika wax ka rabbo