Balance of the two....
Two incomes are better than one in today's world
I know how to cook and clean, its really not that hard. The Prophet Muhammad, SAW, did his house duties too.
But I can't have a wifey who can't cook for herself either, aqas... I see our madow neighbors across the street and the woman there doesn't know how to cook. Her toddler loves to come over and eat my hooyo's food