Somali Men: What Kind of Wife Would You Want

[Gatspy]

Well I guess it really depends on where ur at. My vote easily goes to the second. First being the fact that most young ladies now days r very well educated, and go through yrs of schooling to get their hand on degrees. It will be sad to just trash all that hard work in the end. Secondly lets not make the career woman sound like one who only works and has no interest in taking care of her home. Shes probably out there trying really hard to succeed in her career just so she can succeed at home, and bust her asss the minute she sets foot at the door again. That said, It'd still up to her to choose. If she wants to chill at home, then so be it.

[FAH1223]

Balance of the two....

Two incomes are better than one in today's world

I know how to cook and clean, its really not that hard. The Prophet Muhammad, SAW, did his house duties too.

But I can't have a wifey who can't cook for herself either, aqas... I see our madow neighbors across the street and the woman there doesn't know how to cook. Her toddler loves to come over and eat my hooyo's food

[Naaima]

gatspy right right!!!

[musika man]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Somali Men: What Kind of Wife Would You Want

Wifey Candidate # 1 - Acts like the Somali Martha Stewart, excellent cook, excels in domestic work. Very traditional woman. Works at this regular 9pm to 5pm.


since most of the first generation somali girls in the diaspora are still in universities and single, most of the wives now married or divorced fall into no1. with little knowledge and less skills in parenting, somali marriages are falling like the bangladeshi stock market, divorces are skyrocketing and their children act like thugs and suffer from learning intellectual disability. she gets fat and when the husband is not arround, she is stuck with cyber chatting like those in somalinet. both the children and the husband suffers in this reltionship. what can she cook? rice and pasta? am allergic to them.

Wifey Candidate # 2 - Not a good cook or at domestic housework. Believes in the idea of you doing the your share of the work (50-50 is her personal philosophy). She is a career woman.


since no.2 is educated you can reason with them. when the children are babies she can do her m.a or ph.d from home instead of surfing the net and chatting in somalinet. when they grow up, she can work.