blonde xalimoz

[zulaika]

why is it that when somalis see a blonde somali girl, they automatically think she is wild or easy etc.? one time i was at the masjid and when we were doing wuduu, there was this somali girl with blonde hair(mind u she is a xijaabi) and the woman next to her(an older woman) looked at her with disgust in her face and the bloody old hag couldn't couldn't confine her disaproval within her grimace so she was like...eedo, maxaad timahaada colorkooda ceynkaan uga dhigtey..miyaad ciyaal suuqeysaa"? bisinka, the girl is obviously in the masjid so she does not fit the profile of the allege so why say something like that to her? cajiib walaah.

and its not just other somali woman who see them like that..faraxs are the worst. they think they have a free pass with u if u are a blonde xalimo as suppose to a dark haired xalimo even though both are showing their hair and are dressed the same way.

personally i think blonde is not an option for all somali girls or any other girl of color but that's just me. laakin there are some girls who just color their like that and nothing more to it.

[SummerRain]

Goodness, for a min I thought you were talking about personality there.

I think any hair dye depends on your skin tone. If you have the right skin tone, nothing is wrong with the blonde color.

[Sir-Luggoyo]

Zuleikha,

It's not just Somalis, it's in every culture and the natural blondes aren't immune to the belief of blondes being dumb, being dumb means being easy lay

[SummerRain]

Blondes are not dumb....look at Jessica Simpson.

[Garvey]

Jessica simpson is not dumb?

She once asked her former husband, Nick whatever.."Is this chicken, what i have or is this fish? I know it's tuna but it says chicken by the sea"

Now you don't think that's dumb?

[SummerRain]

I know the quote you're talking about. It was a reality show, and in show like that she is going say or play whatever it take to get good ratings. She is acutally a successful business woman besides have singing and acting career. Her playing dumb made her a millionaire.

[Garvey]

I hear you....It's all stereotype....If you're blond, you must play dumb and sexy so on and so forth.

[gurey25]

any platinum xalimoz?

[Gedo_Boy]

was she wearing this kind of hijab for the lady to see?

http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/782/ ... icaqe7.jpg

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[Males_Zenawe]

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War adigu horta qosol iyo dhikh dikh badnidaa ma gabar yar oo dhilla ah baa tahay??

[Abdi_westldn]

[quote="Gedo_Boy"]was she wearing this kind of hijab for the lady to see?

http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/782/ ... icaqe7.jpg[/quote]


when you are in the masjid doing wudu, you have to take the hijaab off or lift it so you can tap your hair with the water.

have you never done wudu before?


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this is not abdi

[*Arabman]

There are only few naturally blonde women; the majority dye their hair. Studies have shown the blonde color to have a magnetizing effect on a broad range of men, particularly weak and dumb men. It's sort of a fail-safe color to attract men. Different kinds of women, including prostitutes and the undignified use that color, to attract men or take advantage of them. Although it attracts men, studies have shown many men have little or no respect for women with such color. I think my conservative and dignified sisters in Islam should never entertain such a color. Nothing is better than your own natural color; it's like pure water, the best liquid to drink, while blonde is harmful artificial liquid that's sure to hurt your health and well-being.