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Has anyone else noticed this unspoken competition to finish school first, get married first (preferably young) & have kids first. What's going on? On top of that...the second a girl graduates high school...she hounded by family & relatives to settle down. Why is there pressure to be married and have kids. Don't people know that if they push their kids to marry when they don't want to...it might lead to an unhealthy marriage.

Are people getting married for the sake of marriage? Is that why Somalis have such staggering divorce rates?

It's nuts. I don't think people think too deeply about what they're getting into and the fact that this WILL affect their lives forever. It's a major life decison.

Not a competition.

Tell us more.

You are exaggerating

Only ugly Xalimos hate to see there friends or fellow somali xalimos getting married...


Maybe thats why you are discourage it

somalis basically marry for kids.I remember my mother telling--marry him, have two or three kids- and kick him out.And i said hell no! Marry him- leave the kids with him.

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Somali men dont wanna take care of themselves let alone your kids

"somalis basically marry for kids.I remember my mother telling--marry him, have two or three kids- and kick him out.And i said hell no! Marry him- leave the kids with him. "

Basra-,

Was your mum on drugs when she was telling you that? . Who was suppose to take care of your ass and your fat 3 children when you had kicked him out?

Mad My Hoyo is not a Marexaan, she doens't take drugs.

Basra.. first of all stop rolling your eyes at me ok. I'm not your ex crackhead mareexan husband. Second of all, how can a mother tell her daughter to have 3 children and kick her husband out after that? What kinda mother is that?

Mad@lol why r u dissing your qabil Marexaar??

^ Basra ..I'm a HJ gentleman so i will leave your inconsiderate mother alone. No need to change the subject

Madloool No way! u are a Marexaar!


U have their aaf weyne and dhiloniimo!

^Your so childish wallahi. How did you become a mod when your a 17 year old candhobuur sijuu?

Mad


U wished i was suju. So u are a suju and an inaa Marexaar love??? Aqaas.

No I'm not marexan so please no more insults. And since i'm a male i can't be a love, lol. See i was right about you being sijuu

Mad

suju have a bad accent and bad breath.