As usual we will pick up we left off. However, before we begin, let 's recap what we learned so far.
1--Somali women are born b!tches.
2--Somali men are born puzzies.
3--Somali men are lost in western woods.
4--Somali kids and wives are following some lost dads.
The above problems put Somali family in to crisis. And also Somali youth are in distray and dichonomy--torn apart between Somali culture and western culture.
Well, that is the recap. However, in today's tip we put some spin on the subject and braoden the topic. shall we?.
Let's just say all Somali women's problem is direct result of Somali men who are lacking strong family fundation. In every culture, men are responsible and are head of the households. Thus, althought Somali women are born b!tches, it is not their fault to be who they are. There is cause and effect. Somali women's been b!tches are Somali men's effect of not being runing the household. Period. Remember if Mom is not happy, the whole family is not happy one.
Thus, Somali family crisis are like Somali political crisis. Both of them are result of that camel-herded-- stupid Somali men.
So may say, what is the solution?. Well, there ain't quick fix, here. However,
here are some that can help.
Somali young men need to forget whatever they know about Somali culture and start new one. Old Somali culture is based on camel herding business and it was concocted by nomad fathers who knew only how to raid camel from the "other" clan, give 100 raided camel and one horse as dowry to his bride's family, recite some violent poetry and brag how his clan is supperior to the "other" clans. That is old Somali culture.
It is absolutely inacceptable this modern life we live in. young men need to adopt new urban culture. One that has good islamic roots and modern at the sametime. One that is different than Wahabia cult and yet open minded muslim and can accomodate western way of life. You see, one doesn't need to be Wahabi to be good muslim. You can wear tie and suite, work for the biggest corporate and can be good muslim. you can have good muslim wife that doesn't wear some focked up attire in the name of being muslim. You can have Jane or Halima who is good mom and have uncovered hair and can raise up good muslim kids. It is time to stop following the foot steps of failed culture and stupid dads. It is time to integrate and come up new identity based on the islamic fall back and western way of life.
The somali young men have no legency and need to stop listening to some focked up and motherfocking dads who don't have a clue what the heck they are talking about. From now, no Somali young man should be listening so-called dad and controling mom, either. Mom is ok if she doesn't want to run young man's life. it is because these focked fathers failed us all. their culture failed us all. it is culture full of nothing to be proud of.
That is all for day's tip and usual I will write as we go.