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Its too premeditated, but either way, I'm good on that. As long as I'm not doing anything to disobey my parent infront of Allah, than I'm good. Thats all I was worried about.

Ismahan123, I think your parents should be happy if your husband is first and formost a Muslim, a educated man with a good job thats is Somali that comes from a respect family sharaf leh, thats about it talk to your parents about that it's your choice who you gonna marry.

My advice

Ismahan say nothing to ur parents just call the guy and tell him "waryaa wax ma ko sheega dee koma rabo ee get lost" ...(politly ofcourse).Then if he have some self-respect he will tell ur parents that he changed his mind .

Ismahan, naa bax either tell me misa naga amus. WTF. Lol

Abdi,

My folks don't believe in arranged marriages!

Nabz,

I dont know what luff is abaayo.

AW is right, your parents duaa is feriiii important, hey did you know if a man's wife and his mother fight and are really displeased with each other,he is supposed to divorce her to please his mum?

Walid is first before anything, especially marriage. Give the guy a chance, maybe this is the way you was meant to find 'your one'

But am just being rational, you obviously want things to turn out irrational and chase the 'Love' concept, which is btw is only truely pure in Marriage.

Don't push yourself to anything sweety, it is you choice.

All the best..