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Zulaika,

Why destroy or hate ?

The best way to get back is not to do anything, (drives the person crazy as they await your move.)

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Muktaar,

If I caught my wife cheating, I would just leave her and take my kids (after DNA testing each one).

There is nothing that I can not walk away from except my mother, father and siblings.[/quote]

thats the rite thing to do, i would do the same..but what im saying why dont u do ur homework b4 u get married in the first place??

[quote="zulaika



i would sport similar school of thought but trust me, i won't simply "walk away" he will feel the heat of my wrath for damn sho...i gotta do something to completely destroy him before i leave..i will do this at all costs and by any means neccessary. [/quote]


wow.. zules,

I didn't think you could be a vindictive person. Is that even possible or did I just assume your personality was too nice?

Muktar,

Of course, i would do my homework.

But u can't plan for these things, saxiib.

U just hope for the best and make sure that you can walk away from her in less than 40 seconds.

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Zulaika,

Why destroy or hate ?

The best way to get back is not to do anything, (drives the person crazy as they await your move.)[/quote]

Abdi,

Very intelligent response. Less is always more. Women are emotionally charged creatures and that will mentally destroy 'em. Good chess move.

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Muktar,

Of course, i would do my homework.

But u can't plan for these things, saxiib.

U just hope for the best and make sure that you can walk away from her in less than 40 seconds.[/quote]


now we are on the same page, blud

#1baller there's no such a thing as " latino "
Somali are ETHNICALLY one group of people , they do speak their NATIVE language .
Latinos however is a term used in America that groups together people from various backgrounds . Some are black { therefore come from Africa} others White { Spain For most of the south American countries, Portugal for Brazil ,Italy Germany & France for Argentina } you've also got a couple from Japan {like the former president of Peru} and finally the vast majority descend from the NATIVES.
I mean how is that ONE people??

[quote="Ina Baxar"]#1baller there's no such a thing as " latino "
Somali are ETHNICALLY one group of people , they do speak their NATIVE language .
Latinos however is a term used in America that groups together people from various backgrounds . Some are black { therefore come from Africa} others White { Spain For most of the south American countries, Portugal for Brazil ,Italy Germany & France for Argentina } you've also got a couple from Japan {like the former president of Peru} and finally the vast majority descend from the NATIVES.
I mean how is that ONE people?? [/quote]

Ina Baxar,

I'm not speaking about recent immigrants to latin America who live on tha continent. Latino culture is based on Spanish culture brought during colonisation through Christianity.

You wouldn't understand that because you aren't latino. The traditions of traditional latino people feed off of catholicism. My dad is latino through and through and he would explain it to you if we were discussing this in a Starbucks cafe.

Latino is a term but hispanic culture has always been what it is. Why do you think that there isn't much difference in language and customs with most latin nations.

For e.g Mexico does bullfight festivals. Doesn't Spain also do bullfight festivals too?

baller and abdi,

hate and vindictiveness implies malice aforethought in whatever harm i wish to impose on him...i disagree with u both cuz i don't fit into this claus. i'm not a bad person, those that know me would tell you that i am kind and respectful..just plain nice if u will...as for what i've said about revenging back...its just that, "reaction" to a dreadful action.....i ain't exactly plotting to cause harm in retrospect of him cheating. the way i react to him cheating is simply him reaping what he sew.

comprende?

[quote="Ina Baxar"]#1baller there's no such a thing as " latino "
Somali are ETHNICALLY one group of people , they do speak their NATIVE language .
Latinos however is a term used in America that groups together people from various backgrounds . Some are black { therefore come from Africa} others White { Spain For most of the south American countries, Portugal for Brazil ,Italy Germany & France for Argentina } you've also got a couple from Japan {like the former president of Peru} and finally the vast majority descend from the NATIVES.
I mean how is that ONE people?? [/quote]

Exactly.

[quote="zulaika"]baller and abdi,

hate and vindictiveness implies malice aforethought in whatever harm i wish to impose on him...i disagree with u both cuz i don't fit into this claus. i'm not a bad person, those that know me would tell you that i am kind and respectful..just plain nice if u will...as for what i've said about revenging back...its just that, "reaction" to a dreadful action.....i ain't exactly plotting to cause harm in retrospect of him cheating. the way i react to him cheating is simply him reaping what he sew.

Zules,

You've emphatically stated that you would do something if faced with that situation. I don't get it what's that going to achieve? Would you get personal satisfaction out of it?

How is that gonna help you move on? Not trynna be stereotypical but that is what most black women do when they get hurt or cheated on.

You've been watchin ..."waiting to Exhale" haven't you?

Waiting to exhale

Feel sorry for the car that the chick burned

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Waiting to exhale

Feel sorry for the car that the chick burned [/quote]


haha..that was still a classic movie. Took all tha niggas clothes, shoes and burned it. Then auctioned the rest of his shiit.

baller,

yes i've stated that i would do something and i stand behind that. first of all i ain't dumb enough to do something that would incriminate me...i'm not a lawyer but i interned at a law firm once and i fully read myself up on the ins and outs of civil justice(Canadian: @ the federal and provincial level)..they handled a lot of divorce cases and trust me pal i'm no one to mess with in this regard.

as for the mad black woman burning up the benz..zuly is not that mad but yours and abdi's approach of "not doing anything" isn't exactly my kinda style, i'm very direct and i love to take action against those who cross my path(and personally cause me hurt), but the way i'll get em' is better than just buring up their frivolous material things.

in other words....don't mess with zulaika...good thing i gotta man who will never mess with me. that is why i am marrying him

Okay #1 baller , I'll grant you your final point , I guess the concept of "culture" can transcend ethinical background . As long as you refrain from glorifying debauchery , we're cool . Go back to your catholic roots then , isn't that the reason the Spaniards colonized South America , to show them the righteous way