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Ismahan, don't generalize. The thing that pissed my friend off wasn't the girl "pissing him off". It was the intense jealousy of her friends, affecting the girl and causing problems in the house. Again beware of the jealous friend and don't think they have your best interests at heart. Girls are so foolish sometimes and never suspect the caniving Xalimo who wishes to wreak havoc on a healthy home out of jealousy.

luq

I doubt that......if the guy doesnt want her she have to move on

Ismahan,

Well put.


LuqGanane,

Whats with making threats I am going to divorce u.

These men need shuukansi lessons. Nothing is more devastating to a woman than just ignoring her and being quiet.

Drives them crazy.

Also the reality is for better or worse when a girl is divorced there is a stigma thats attached to her that affects her more than guys. I'm 24, single and never been married and to be honest I would never marry a girl who's been married before. I feel sorry for girls sometimes. Some of these girls who get divorced at 21 don't get married again until their thirties.

No doubt, she was mareexaan!!!

[quote="Luq_Ganane"] Right now the girl is devastated, and resorts to calling my friend's mom everyday , and asking her to please talk to her son for her to take her back.[/quote]

unbelievable!...ooh walah your friends are not always who they say they are!!

Who cares? She is crying over some guy? Come on, move it on. There are so many guys in this world to cry for one! uf!

[quote="Luq_Ganane"]Also the reality is for better or worse when a girl is divorced there is a stigma thats attached to her that affects her more than guys. I'm 24, single and never been married and to be honest I would never marry a girl who's been married before. I feel sorry for girls sometimes. Some of these girls who get divorced at 21 don't get married again until their thirties. [/quote]



luq

wax kasta waa calaf....just allah knows how mony pple we will get married with....ilaahy samir ha siiyo ..aamin

guys play garoobs never marry them she will be lonely for a long time

Lug,

If this girl is neglecting her husband and home and paying attention to naago warkoda iyo malayacni kale than ayada nacaas ah. However, naago warkoda ruunba kujiirta markasto, so this farax is not off the hood easily here. My point is, if two people have issues they need to solve it together in the comfort of their home. Naag markey guuri yelato doceelnimada waloga ficaanyahay at the sametime I dont like the threats of your friend here with the divorce, it makes him sound like a pregnant woman dealing with morning sickness. He should learn and know how to handle his woman and take initiative not threaten her with divorce, waxaas wa shaago naageed. No offense to your friend.

[quote="Luq_Ganane"]Also the reality is for better or worse when a girl is divorced there is a stigma thats attached to her that affects her more than guys. I'm 24, single and never been married and to be honest I would never marry a girl who's been married before. I feel sorry for girls sometimes. Some of these girls who get divorced at 21 don't get married again until their thirties. [/quote]

Aboowe, runnta hadad raabtiid, imaanka kugu yaar.

Luq

Let me get this straight, so it was possibly the doings of the female that caused the divorce??? I had to laugh at that!!!

I don't want to be rude but...what the heck is this?
Your so called friend is just a coward from my view.
Damnn i hate ignorant pple! As for the wife>> i would have said to her put yourself 2geta and move on.

[quote="TheBigBosS"]guys play garoobs never marry them she will be lonely for a long time [/quote]


so true

Anyway I did tell my buddy that he should take her back, as he went overboard. There still in the Iddah period so Inshallah they reconcile but he's hardheaded and stubborn.