Ineligible bachelors

[zulaika]

Walahi dumarku waa sheydhamiin. I’m talking about the ones who are attracted to unavailable men. Albeit they may not want to pursue a relationship with such a dude but I’m talking about how his appeal somehow increases the minute they find out he’s taken, suddenly they see him with different perspective. Balaayo idinku dacdey.

And before anyone relates this scenario back to me……don’t even think about it, I ain’t in such situation alxamdulilah, but to my surprise someone very close to me has had experience with this and I’m so disgusted at her.

[kenyan4life]

its like when you have a girl all the girls want you, but if your girl leaves you then no body wants to be around u

[AbdiWahab252]

Zulaika,

Eid Mubarak.

Its more like credit cards when it comes to men. Like VISA or MASTERCARD, having a woman makes it easier for you to get another.

The other woman is assuming that you must be something worthwhile because another woman wants you and she has already preapproved you (u ain't a pyscho, stalker, killer etc).

[Basra-]

Its human nature to desire the unavailable. The same way men like to chase difficult and unwilling Xalimos, its a challenge.Its away from the norm, dull, familiar existance. Besides, a married man usually--has demostrated his 'manliness'--both in his sexual prowess & economy! A married man is looked upon as sexually experienced, and girls wiggle their eyes in desperate anticipation of his skills in the bedroom.A married man is responsible enough, economical and thus can afford to support a willing Xalimo.


And......



OF course lets NOT forget these predatory Xalimos--have their 'hormones' hot & bothered, and ready to breed.Its down right primitive biological human Genesis!

[zulaika]

basra,

u sound like the women in question here.

abdi,

a belated eid mubarak to u 2.

u must have every credit card available for issue then?

[musika man]

^^^^

i c myslef in suleika's leading character. most somali lamagodley gals want a light skinned dude like me. they come in all flavors and qawiils.

[Basra-]

zulaikaloool

NO macaan, i am speaking strictly from a sociological,psychological point of view.

[kenyan4life]

[quote="Basra-"]Its human nature to desire the unavailable. The same way men like to chase difficult and unwilling Xalimos, its a challenge.Its away from the norm, dull, familiar existance. Besides, a married man usually--has demostrated his 'manliness'--both in his sexual prowess & economy! A married man is looked upon as sexually experienced, and girls wiggle their eyes in desperate anticipation of his skills in the bedroom.A married man is responsible enough, economical and thus can afford to support a willing Xalimo.


And......



OF course lets NOT forget these predatory Xalimos--have their 'hormones' hot & bothered, and ready to breed.Its down right primitive biological human Genesis! [/quote]



wow

[Basra-]

kenyatta what is the 'wow' for??

[razzberry]

Zulaika

Ive come across women like this. Don’t be disgusted with your friend. Sounds more like she’s suffering from self esteem problems. A woman that is secure with herself will tend to her own man. Not go after someone else’s.

[kenyan4life]

[quote="Basra-"]kenyatta what is the 'wow' for?? [/quote]

oh dont sweat it, i guess u arent a naive little girl after all

[Basra-]

kenyatta


So u thought i was naive young girl?????? I am glad i changed your mind. What do u think of me now???

[SummerRain]

Just wait until their get divorced. Thats a plan.

[kenyan4life]

[quote="Basra-"]kenyatta


So u thought i was naive young ?????? I am glad i changed your mind. What do u think of me now??? [/quote]




lol i dunno, post your pic and i'll tell u

[QansaGabeyle]

it is weird stuff. some dudes tell chicks they got a wife just to get rid of them but it only results the chick being more obsessed with them than she ever was.