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Suppose that you move to another city and got to know this girl. Seems like decent girl, but after while you find out she was one of those "bad bad" girl gone clean... Will you keep her?..... or even worst... you married her then found out her horrible past.. what will you do?


Derbi,

if u don't marry her...eventually another brother will marry her...so i say make the best out of her...after all we are all human beings...guys make much more horrible acts but it is society that judges women in our culture....

that's a tough one.......but it would depend on the circumstance and her personality. If I truly felt she repented I would be inclined to conceal her faults and her shame and hopefully God would do the same for you. But if I felt she was deceptive or a liar about her past then I couldn't respect that.


But if she was sincere (and we're all weak) I would tell her that she best be on her best behavior from now on and be loyal to your man and only be thinking about how to make him happy

and if I even sense she's going astray that she will be kicked to the curb.

If A woman loves you enough...her past is not and should not be something to be concerned about..trust on that...Guys..

But if she doesnt have love for you...wether she pretends to be Mother Teresa or whomever..then thats a problem..

Onething that always works fine and comes in handy is to keep her busy and wondering abt your mysterious ways...rather you being worried abt her forbidden fruit..

After all ...the thing is not like Saabuun dhamaaneysa..adiga lee dhamaaneysid..

Cawar,

If the girl had a crazy life and she's reformed that's one thing......but if she is still on her old ways then it's not worth it no matter how much she loves you b/c sometimes love is not enough to conquer old habits.......you're not ALWAYS gonna have love dictate your decisions.

How many times have you heard: "I love my husband deeply but...." or "One thing led to another"

You want a chick that you take to the mall and she is hugging her old boyfriends that you meet up with.

Eff That !

derbi jiif

Just take a look of ur self......

-are you a decent muslim
-ma tukata
-gadh ma leedahy
- hooyada ma biilisa bil kasta
-is ur past clean like water
-ciro ma leedahy


nobody is perfect.....if you love her and she is a good muslimah now, just marry her.

-gadh ma leedahy



HELWAA waa Muminad Reer Burco ah

ey Derbi, i would take her to the beach at sunset...take her to the sea and make her confess or...lets just say waa la kala dhimanayaa

[quote="Gedo_Boy"]-gadh ma leedahy



HELWAA waa Muminad Reer Burco ah [/quote]


I'm not from Burco walaal.

Helwaa,

U seem to speak like gabar who has done a lot of naughty things.

Deerbijif,

Saxiib, you should always enlist Hooyo Investigative Services before marrying any woman.

Its amazing what Hooyo & your female relatives can dig up.

To hell with her, declare jihad and decapitate her. the penalty for deception is death.

"How many times have you heard: "I love my husband deeply but...." or "One thing led to another"

GB,

To tell you the truth never..and I dont hope this to happen to the worst of my enemy(ies)..

However, Love as far as I know and have heard is enough for women to be conquered sxb...along with few nice lines that are muzic to their ears..

So..my main concern is ...does the Halimo truly in love and in Sync with me??
Iff yes..then I got no problem..if she aint...then its time to move on to the next one...as simple as that..

PS. I havent made the rules of the game sxb, you either excell in it..or you are devoured by these shaytin creatures called women...

[quote="The-Screw"]To hell with her, declare jihad and decapitate her. the penalty for deception is death.[/quote]

looooool

Can't turn a blank into a blank sxb.

^^^

cawar you can't turn a wh.ore who had multiple abortions into a good mother and a good wife.

Imagine her telling you she's so clean and you later see a guy's name tattoo'ed on her chest or buTt cheek or something.

Hell to the naWW....