Postby FAH1223 » Tue Nov 20, 2007 10:55 pm
For all of you talking about dunya (money, wealth, beauty) for marriage, please read these from our Noble Nabi Sallahu Alayhi Wasallam
"Do not marry women for their beauty. It is possible that their beauty may destroy them.
Do not marry women for their wealth. It is possible that their wealth may make them rebellious
instead. Marry them on the basis of their faith. A black maid who is a believer is much better for you."
[Hadith of Ibn Majah on the authority of Abdullah Ibn Amr Ibn Al As]
“Whoever marries a woman solely for her power and position, Allah will only increase him in humiliation. Whoever marries a woman solely for her wealth, Allah will only increase him in poverty. Whoever marries a woman because of her beauty, Allah will only increase him in ugliness. But whoever marries a woman in order that he may restrain his eyes, observe cautiousness, and treat his relations kindly, Allah puts a blessing in her for him and in him for her.”
- Rasullulahi Sallahu Alayhi Wasallam