I get sad when I think that some garoobs have to result to sleeping around w/ some men that won't marry them to satisfy their natural desire. They know that woman is desperate and they take advantage of it by using her for their own needs and knowing she can't get her rights from him b/c her reputation is at stake and she's not married to him anyways.
I think it's a good idea if I could definitely find one that I could be a great husband for her and (possibly) her kids and provide her emotional, psychological, financial and physical security
Wallahi sometimes even the garoobs end up sleeping w/ married men and keep it on the downlow b/c they know they better be quiet otherwise they will even lose that man they have for a fraction of the time in a xaraam way. If they get pregnant with that man's child, they are outcast as a 'love' and the child lives with the stigma of being a 'wecel'. How many of us descended from a different 'bah' and don't we love our 1/2 siblings?
How many women will go down the road of 'dhilonimo' just b/c they had a bad marriage and give up hope of being remarried to a guy who 'doesn't want a garoob'.
that's why I get pissed when people start accusing me of being selfish if I want to marry 2 wives....and the 2nd would probably be a garoob. I will not stand for that!
I will not let evil or selfishly jealous women get in the way of my humanitarian work!
If you marry a 2nd wife, get some ajar and marry a garoob. If they weren't the fidno they will be grateful to have a good man in their life for once.
Paid for by the NAAGP.
National Association for the Advancement of Garoob Persons.
