Serious Question here...please add your 2 cents...

Mystic_Angel · Postby **Mystic_Angel** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 3:39 pm

No offence meant, this is just a plat form for discussion. Views of all are welcome.

In the present day scenario many homes are found breaking because of the said to be extra marital affairs which includes a man wanting another wife when he has one using religious beliefs to justify his actions..

Is it because of the wife who cannot hold the reins, or because of the other woman whose bewitching charms are believed to mesmerize the man in question or the man himself who cannot balance the situation or may be wants to free himself off what he calls ‘the shackles’.

Our society normally blames that 'other woman' for breaking homes. Don’t we need to give it a thought who actually is to be blamed for it? .. Laughing

zulaika · Postby **zulaika** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 3:53 pm

Are we talking about here and the west in polygamy practices….well in that case, knowing full well no female is ever forced to marry anyone, I blame her ENTIRELY for wanting to marry an already married man…faraxs naag kale hadey odhato huuno diiyaar baan kuu ahey ee i guurso, he forgerts he was married(thinking about one thing) and then tries to justify his desires through islamic avenues.. so I really don’t blame him..dog oo fresh meat arkey waaye. Laakin fock the B!thch aka the fresh meat who offers herself to an already married man. Waa xalaal home wrecker. Laughing

Mystic_Angel · Postby **Mystic_Angel** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 3:57 pm

loooooools@halal home wrecker...
Can you imagin if a xalimo like you unhappy in marriage would look for a relationship outside as compared to a farax......

Maryuhu katagi laha.... Laughing

I think the man should be blame by all means... Smile

But then again there goes the halal avenues.... Shocked

HELWAA · Postby **HELWAA** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 3:59 pm

Zuli

Dont blame the women....she cant help if she fell inlove with married man.

Angel

Ninka hadi aad adigo busy ka dhigtid i doubt he will look to onther woman Laughing

Gifted · Postby **Gifted** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 4:08 pm

Horta, I can't stand these women that fall in "love" with married men...they are inconsiderate of the first womans feelings...and what about the children...how will this affect them?...now that there dad has to devote half his time with another women...These kids are being deprived of their fathers. Personally, I dont blame the man at all...diinta uu fasaxeey...so there's nothing we can do there. I would only understand if the women is infertile as not many men would consider marrying her or a spinster...labadaas waan gartee...lakiin inte kale...are pure losers...have they seen the devastation it causes some families. There are plenty of single men out there down

Burka_Xaji · Postby **Burka_Xaji** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 4:09 pm

Another words Helwaa is saying fock him good Cool

Burhaan Xaji the sex machine

HELWAA · Postby **HELWAA** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 4:09 pm

Burka_Xaji · Postby **Burka_Xaji** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 4:12 pm

Helwaa I agree with you 100%

That is what I was trying to tell people in here if you satisfy your woman then it won't matter if she makes more money then her husband.

Burka_Xaji · Postby **Burka_Xaji** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 4:14 pm

[quote="HELWAA"]Zuli

Dont blame the women....she cant help if she fell inlove with married man.

Angel

Ninka hadi aad adigo busy ka dhigtid i doubt he will look to onther woman Laughing

[/quote]

Helwaa why are shocked?????????

I thought busy ka dhig means do ya thing well

HELWAA · Postby **HELWAA** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 4:15 pm

Do i know you Confused

Your other nick is Confused

kambuli · Postby **kambuli** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 4:26 pm

There are so many reasons that guys look around for another women;

1) Iimaan laawe markiisii horeba ahaa Iimaan laawe.
2) Selfish guy who when his first wife have few children and they make some noise and stuff, who seeks a quiet house aka another wife with no kids..
3).His first wife is qumanyo who nags 24/7 an he seeks peace of mind(Tranquility)..I don't blame him.
4) He finds his wife to be not appealing in certain area....like hygiene, hawlsha qaranka etc..
5) An idiot which another women tricked him.
6) Those who do it because others did...and believe me I saw one who did that.

and many other reasons...One thing I know is if the husband looks around for another wife...The first one should undrestand that she is DONE WITH....Good luck for her... Sad

Aliyah99 · Postby **Aliyah99** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 4:42 pm

Men are horny 24/7 Kacsi will lead them to do anything..

Men are visual creatures meaning they get horny from visual thats why they watch pornos and women dont'. In other words seeing hot girls Laughing

even a blissfully married man is 24/7 checking out other women. You would be naive if you think just because he loves you he does not notice other good looking ones..be as sexy as hell and make sure he knows you have plenty of other offers thats the only way to get a man to be faithfull..

Algebra · Postby **Algebra** » Fri Dec 14, 2007 4:53 pm

There is conditions and requirements for second, third and fourth that God ordered let him go ahead but I would not blame another woman but my own husband or myself. The other woman/women just looking after her interesting. Money or company to meet her needs and desires.

*zabah · Postby *zabah » Fri Dec 14, 2007 9:01 pm

you damn right the man is the one to blamed...any man who goes behind his wife, to be with some w.hore should have his balls cut off and shove his own balls down his focking throat... Very Happy

Mystic_Angel · Postby **Mystic_Angel** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 2:10 pm

may god bless somali women&their wickedness.. Cool

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