Marry someone without knowing their tribe...

Postby **FAH1223** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:32 pm

man who the hell cares though?

if she/he fits your requirements in a mate, is their qabil going to really stop you from marrying them?

don't care what other people think, only what Allah thinks of you

HELWAA · Postby **HELWAA** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:34 pm

[quote="FAH1223"]man who the hell cares though?

if she/he fits your requirements in a mate, is their qabil going to really stop you from marrying them?

don't care what other people think, only what Allah thinks of you[/quote]

but but you never answered the Q.......WOULD YOU marry a girl you dont know her qabiil Confused

Ina Baxar · Postby **Ina Baxar** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:35 pm

Chilli why do people have names?? Tribe is one's Identity !! That's why I tell somali girls , watch out , your punani is your identity , if you take it somewhere else , don't come back Laughing

Postby **Shirib** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:36 pm

We're Somali and you're gonna find out about her clan wether you want to or not.

Guaranteed

Most people whose clans I know I never asked in my life people just find a reason to tell me.

Qatar_isaaq_chick · Postby **Qatar_isaaq_chick** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:38 pm

[quote="Gifted"]Possible or Impossible....[/quote]

Impossible it's like driving a car with out the fuel Laughing

+chilli · Postby **+chilli** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:41 pm

[quote="Ina Baxar"]Chilli why do people have names?? Tribe is one's Identity !! That's why I tell somali girls , watch out , your punani is your identity , if you take it somewhere else , don't come back Laughing

[/quote]

I agreed up untill the comment on the girls, disappointed.

Ina Baxar · Postby **Ina Baxar** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:45 pm

Why ?? that's how I feel . I don't live in a world where the world wide ummah are my brothers and siaters , blahblahblahbla... where it's all love and peace , blahblahbalh....
I am sorry , I am somali !!
Any somali girl that goes outside her community should stay there !!
These are clear choices one makes , if a grown up Laughing

I 'm not telling anyone anything here , but that one should assume the consequences of his/her choice .

HELWAA · Postby **HELWAA** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:47 pm

hayaay.... Shocked

+chilli · Postby **+chilli** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:49 pm

I don't care about that, thats your opinion, ignorant ok but still its your own. only the bit you denied somali women their qabil after emphasizing 'identity' part.

Ina Baxar · Postby **Ina Baxar** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:52 pm

Maxa hayaay ah Laughing

. Anigu waan kuusi sheegaya Helwaa , haddu mid Tajikistan ka yimid meelaha kugu qabto , isma naqaan haddaba!!
Chilli , it is NOT me , it is OUR culture !!! We are all expendable commodities as individuals , our culture and traditions are NOT!!!

Mystic_Angel · Postby **Mystic_Angel** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 4:08 pm

it is absolutely impossible... Laughing

+chilli · Postby **+chilli** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 4:12 pm

[quote="Ina Baxar"]Maxa hayaay ah Laughing

. Anigu waan kuusi sheegaya Helwaa , haddu mid Tajikistan ka yimid meelaha kugu qabto , isma naqaan haddaba!!
Chilli , it is NOT me , it is OUR culture !!! We are all expendable commodities as individuals , our culture and traditions are NOT!!![/quote]

Are you high? maaxa laa qaylinaays?

and culture and traditions change with reason and time...

kambuli · Postby **kambuli** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 4:16 pm

Gifted, quote " so what do you guys think of guys that use uunsi and cadar?"

Bisinka...What do you mean?

You mean cadar as in Oil Perfume that some women use for their hair? And how does he use the UUNSI? On himself or on the room? Surprised

Ina Baxar · Postby **Ina Baxar** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 4:18 pm

Firs of all ma qaylinayo , and I am not high .
Reason and time is your lil excuses , hablihiina Qurbaha ku nool aad la timaadeen.
Listen to me very carefully , anigu kugu ma qasbayo inaad nin soomaali ah guursato . Haddaad nin ajanabi ah guursato laakiin , dhaqankii soomalida waanad ka baxday , caruurtaaduna , haddaad Deqa iyo wacays xitaa u bixiso , WELIGOOD soomali noqon maayan . Waa very clear walaashey!! Laughing

HELWAA · Postby **HELWAA** » Mon Dec 17, 2007 4:19 pm

[quote="Ina Baxar"]Maxa hayaay ah Laughing

. Anigu waan kuusi sheegaya Helwaa , haddu mid Tajikistan ka yimid meelaha kugu qabto , isma naqaan haddaba!!
Chilli , it is NOT me , it is OUR culture !!! We are all expendable commodities as individuals , our culture and traditions are NOT!!![/quote]

So you are telling ME you will not marry outside ur tribe.... Shocked

..meaning HA Confused

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